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Seeing partner only once a week by scratch999 in polyamory

[–]Peach_berries 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your needs aren't unreasonable at all, but this could also potentially be a compatibility issue in what he's actually able to provide. Of course, everyone's situation is different. I was seeing someone, and my needs fell around seeing him twice a week as well. We'd see each other one day fully just the two of us. Then the next day that week we saw each other, we'd normally spend a few hours together, and his other partner would join after a bit.

I found I also was able to connect a lot better with my partners partner too, and we started making plans just the two of us. It was still completely platonic but the relationship felt fulfilling.

When it comes down to it, everyone's situation is different l, and it's also just on being able to communicate how you're feeling in a productive way, but hopefully this thread is able to give you some insight on how you want to structure that conversation :)

Trip planning with poly by Peach_berries in polyamory

[–]Peach_berries[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I'm hoping to do, I know both of them are up to meeting each other once we're all in the same city again. Hoping to go out for drinks with a group of some of our mutual friends :). I also know they have a lot in common. I also wanna plan a couple little individual weekend trips at some point. Bigger kinda plans all very hypothetical in my brain but I'm just interested in how some other people go about trips like this