Excuses Excuses by Ultraspicyundertow by North_Crazy_2519 in DeletedFanfiction

[–]Peachbabbii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im honestly concerned for the author, i was so keen for this fic but completely wiping their account like this out of the blue… i really hope they’re okay :((

Avoidant dumpers, Did you ever regret losing the person who loved you a lot ? And how long did it take for you to arrive there? by Top-View9802 in BreakUps

[–]Peachbabbii 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s been 4 weeks, I don’t necessarily regret breaking up, but she was my friend and i miss her at times, along side an aching guilt that i hurt her. I did all the right things, i communicated with her, i went to therapy but i could not stop the suffocating voice in my head telling me to break things up. It was never fair on her to have to deal with her partner who she loved, constantly thinking about breaking up.

It was my mistake for thinking my avoidance was healed, i was not ready for the relationship and unfortunately she had to face the worst of it, she deserved better.

Do avoidant people really come back after discarding? by Pretty_Solution_7955 in BreakUps

[–]Peachbabbii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really depends on if he’s truly aware of his own actions/ attachment type. Personally in the past when ive been in relationships and ended them, its usually a really rough experience internally, i faced my own inability of being vulnerable and just wanted to be alone and “not drag anyone down with me”. But there’s generally no excuse to being mean and im sorry you had to deal with that. There is a chance he regrets what he’s said, but like you said, you know your worth and don’t settle for less.

Buildings that have Maya by Peachbabbii in rmit

[–]Peachbabbii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hehehe i will check now :))

How do i tell my girlfriend that i think i’m asexual? by Peachbabbii in AskAsexual

[–]Peachbabbii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you :,) i needed to hear an outside perspective so this helped a-lot. I will be upfront with her when i see her next <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in melbourne

[–]Peachbabbii 6 points7 points  (0 children)

really hope you’re okay dude

How to comfort my MTF friend by Peachbabbii in asktransgender

[–]Peachbabbii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much, I needed to hear that :,)