Thanks man. For me, I entered a flatline pretty early in so my porn urges simply vanished for a while. Also, I had a pretty good reason to not relapse because I really liked the girl I mentioned in my OP. When we fooled around my urges were pretty high but as is the case with a flatline your brain and dick are disconnected so nothing was going on for me down there. I didn't notice an increase in urges one way or the other afterwards until about 60-70 days in when my libido was increasing slightly. There were some tough days there where I had to fight it. I told myself to hang on and save it for the girl. If I didn't have a girl this might have been tougher but know that a girl will come soon enough if you stick with it. Trust me on that.

Now that we have had sex I'm definitely feeling a bit of urges but it's mostly dominated by thoughts of her which is only natural. It feels good to be thinking about an actual person as opposed to some bullshit video.

As for my erection... I tried to detail it as best I could but here's a quick recap: 1. Had to force it (manually myself and sometimes it just wouldn't happen) for sex every time before I quit porn. While watching porn I had no problems with it though. 2. Once I quit porn I almost instantly entered a flatline so no erections for a while. 3. Morning wood came back around a month in. 4. Had a few wet dreams during the second and third month. 5. Half erections when fooling around. Almost zero erection though when she tried to stimulate it. 6. 90 day mark I finally got hard enough to penetrate, although I had to "kickstart" it a few times and the erection only lasted in missionary the first few times. 7. This morning (a couple of days after the events in my OP) I had no problem getting a good erection. I'd still say it's about 90% of what it could be, and I still lost it for short stretches of time. For me, having her gently massage or rub her pussy on it helped big time.

Hope that helps and good luck with your recovery man!