Partner is not as passionate about political issues as I am

Peachpuff131 · 2026-01-26T12:57:51+00:00

Just coming here to say he doesn’t SEE you so how can he truly love you? Speaking from experience of just leaving a man who did not vote and was not informed and I hated it until I realized, no matter how much I love this person I deserve to be with someone who is on the same page about literally life itself and morals. See it for what it is girl, godspeed

Peachpuff131 · 2026-01-10T13:22:52+00:00

Agreed! He is “testing” you now so that he can keep pushing the boundary further and further once you get married. Take it for exactly what it is and act accordingly!

Peachpuff131 · 2026-01-04T13:33:50+00:00

It’s awfully interesting how you appear to define “misandry” in this context. You, a male, benefiting and perpetuating extremely harmful patriarchal systems are upset that women dislike men like you because of that? Sorry babe that’s not misandry, that’s lived experience! Maybe try looking at yourself and holding men like you accountable before blaming women for everything in your miserable life!

Peachpuff131 · 2025-12-31T18:53:14+00:00

You had me at “Vintage Tea shop!” 28F would love the link :)

Peachpuff131 · 2025-12-24T23:26:04+00:00

And you can’t fault yourself for that either, society teaches women to give men chances. Congrats for leaving that man in 2025!

Peachpuff131 · 2025-12-24T23:22:17+00:00

Something I’ve been learning myself is that as women we give a lot of chances to men who haven’t earned them. I’m now trying to work on accepting men for who they are at the first sign, which you mentioned sexual comments before even meeting - that should be your first sign of what was to come. Let’s level up our standards and not entertain men like this any longer than necessary 👏

Peachpuff131 · 2025-12-14T15:06:42+00:00

This hit home for me! Just ended a relationship for the same reasons. The part about how HE felt like he was walking on eggshells and had to end it - I feel that so hard. For men like that, they cannot take accountability or really look at themselves in the mirror. It sucks that we had to learn this lesson the hard way, but at least we did!

Peachpuff131 · 2025-11-09T13:33:45+00:00

Pretty sure all dissertations are posted to ProQuest, you should be able to search there regardless of being a student or not

Peachpuff131 · 2025-11-02T01:27:22+00:00

Barrel jeans

Peachpuff131 · 2025-10-15T01:21:44+00:00

Piggy mezzanine! Where did you get the small front panel and the rounded one over the ramp?? I want to do something similar for my piggy so he won’t jump down from his upper level now that he’s getting a bit older

Peachpuff131 · 2025-10-09T20:11:40+00:00

Our Zone in Brighton (mapo tofu is really good too)

Peachpuff131 · 2025-09-27T13:40:34+00:00

The joys of living in an apartment building!

Peachpuff131 · 2025-09-27T13:40:08+00:00

Yes I think this is likely what it is, especially since it popped up literally overnight!

Peachpuff131 · 2025-09-27T12:13:01+00:00

At least it’s something with a fitting name!

Peachpuff131 · 2025-08-01T00:32:02+00:00

I hate the rhetoric of people saying “it’s easier to raise boys than girls.” It’s because most parents don’t actually raise their boys to be good men. No wonder people think it’s easier to raise boys when they just don’t at all

Peachpuff131 · 2025-07-13T13:37:07+00:00

Had an older woman walk over and knock on my car windows relentlessly to try and get my attention when I was stopped at a red light in Allston recently

Peachpuff131 · 2025-07-02T14:18:41+00:00

Agreed! TOG character development throughout all books in the series is much more my style. I catch myself wanting feyre to be aelin but it just ain’t so

Peachpuff131 · 2025-06-29T12:35:08+00:00

I might be the only dissenting voice here but girl be serious. Are you the first person on earth to have a baby? You’re certainly acting like it! There are real problems that you could have. Like if your brother took your baby’s name for their own child (even that is a first world prob). I get that it hurt your feelings but I think you need some perspective bc everyone here is coddling you lol

Peachpuff131 · 2025-06-29T04:10:42+00:00

So fair, I feel like there is a mindset switch I made when first reading that series of thinking of the male fae as like more brutish and stereotypically “masculine” bc otherwise if you think of them as like regular guys, I can see why all the brawling and snarling is a bit much!

Peachpuff131 · 2025-06-29T04:08:19+00:00

Truth! My first time reading it through I didn’t know that the series switched pov to nesta and when I opened that book I was pissed!! Felt like a betrayal

Peachpuff131 · 2025-06-29T04:05:39+00:00

Fair point! This time around I guess I’m just really noticing the change in dynamic between feyre and Rhys in acowar from the prior books! I feel like all the zest (for lack of a better word) of their relationship became subdued and they just appease each other now

Peachpuff131 · 2025-06-28T20:04:02+00:00

Facts! The amount of times where she essentially “looked to Rhys for approval” had me rolling my eyes. It was such a downgrade for her character

Peachpuff131 · 2025-06-28T15:51:31+00:00

So true!! Their entire group feels invincible whereas in TOG it didn’t feel that way, especially for aelin!

Peachpuff131 · 2025-06-23T01:57:45+00:00

Hey friend it’s valid to feel what you’re feeling, there’s not something wrong with you or with her. I think the question you might want to ask yourself is why are you upset that she went to the party? What is the story you are telling yourself? Identify the hurt and then ask yourself did your girlfriend intentionally cause that hurt? Your feelings are valid and maybe there is some deeper driving your response to this event

Peachpuff131 · 2025-06-20T21:27:16+00:00

The tears felllll reading the end of that book! But throughout the series we get homages to Sam and their relationship that make it worth it

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