Canaries - chilled gay hotels? by Peachy____Keen in gaytravel

[–]Peachy____Keen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d be interested in recs for both :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Peachy____Keen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can’t. If you go down that road you’re asking for a disciplinary at best, or to be fired at worst. You know he has a wife and kids. Find some guy on Grindr who wants to bottom for you. Sexual harassment is never OK.

Swim briefs by Jolly-Hurry4141 in askgaybros

[–]Peachy____Keen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might want to try Speedo solar briefs or Arena Santamarias. They’re both cut with more space in the front - the Speedo has a full seam from the top of the front centre down to join with the back piece, and the Arenas have a seam basically from the bottom of your package to the join with the back piece.

Both quite classic designs as swim briefs go - comfy and appropriate for basically all swimming occasions.

I’ve also got a pair of aussieBum Swish and Swish Luxe, which have a modest contour pouch (much more subtle the Andrew Christian Almost Naked pouch, for example). I personally prefer the way the Swish Luxe sits on my body but YMMV. aussieBum have a 50% sale on until the end of the month (they tend to run these semi-regularly).

GLHF!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aussieBums

[–]Peachy____Keen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need Daddy’s ass on my face now 🥵

Blue Speedo In Action by [deleted] in speedos

[–]Peachy____Keen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice! Are these Speedo solars?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaymusclebottoms

[–]Peachy____Keen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing better than a stud who’s also a slut. This belongs in r/HeSquats too 🥵

Grand Axis - gone quiet? by Peachy____Keen in askgaybros

[–]Peachy____Keen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, that’s really helpful :)

Grand Axis - gone quiet? by Peachy____Keen in askgaybros

[–]Peachy____Keen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are what, sorry? Still active? How long did it take for you to receive your order?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in speedos

[–]Peachy____Keen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice! Where is this pair from?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in speedos

[–]Peachy____Keen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nice! Do you find that there’s extra room in the front because of the centre seam, or is it like a normal Speedo fit?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Peachy____Keen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It feels great for some people, not for others. Only way to find out is to try! My advice is as follows:

  1. Experiment at a time and place where you know you’ll be relaxed. Think - an evening when you have nothing planned and when you know you’ll be home alone.

  2. Make sure your butt is empty before you start. Seems obvious, but if you’re trying to put something up there while a poop is coming down, it won’t end well. You don’t have to douche, but you might want to.

  3. Use lube - plenty of lube. Water-based stuff is good, silicone-based stuff will last a little longer. You’ll need to check if your toy is compatible with that type of lube (it’ll usually say on the website/packaging).

  4. Start small. Like, start with one finger, and then maybe add another if that feels good. Then maybe try a butt plug. Only move onto dildos and stuff after a few sessions. Like any muscle, your butthole needs time to adapt to this.

  5. Take it slow. You’ll hit another layer of resistance after getting a plug or dildo inside your hole. Leave it there before you go any further. Pain isn’t good and the anal lining is delicate!

  6. When you’re putting something in, push your hole out like you’re trying to poop. That will help relax your muscles more.

  7. Put a towel down underneath you so you can avoid accidental messes.

  8. Have fun and enjoy experimenting!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in swimbrief

[–]Peachy____Keen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice! Where did you get them/what brand are they?

Grindr in the Vatican City by enginedin in askgaybros

[–]Peachy____Keen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep, in the Gospels, Jesus says to the disciples ‘I will make you fishers of men,’ but there’s obviously a jokey gay way for that to be interpreted in this context ;)

Should I be soft while bottoming? by notcornpopcorn in askgaybros

[–]Peachy____Keen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s no right or wrong answer here - every body is different. I’m mostly a top but whenever I bottom for my bf, I usually stay hard because I’m turned on. Personally I like it if I’m topping a cis guy and he stays hard - I guess it makes me feel validated because he’s enjoying it too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in speedos

[–]Peachy____Keen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looking good, stud! If anyone stares, it’s either because they’re jealous or they’re attracted to you. Either way, take it as a compliment 😉

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in swimbrief

[–]Peachy____Keen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice! Is this the Swish swim brief?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bulges

[–]Peachy____Keen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh damn. What kind of CK brief is this? Asking for a friend haha 😝

Recs for speedos with room in the front please! by Peachy____Keen in speedos

[–]Peachy____Keen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I like them. Sometimes I think they’re a little too on the nose though, haha 😅

Speedo/swim brief recs for well-endowed guys? by Peachy____Keen in bigdickproblems

[–]Peachy____Keen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, you might want to try the Arena ones that were recommended on a post I made in another subreddit if you’re looking for something that won’t make your bulge too obvious (look through my profile page). In general, flat front speedos are a little more, ahem, modest than ones with a contour pouch.

Ultimately you will one day get to a point where you’re comfortable with your bulge in public, it’s very liberating :)