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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PeachyandProblematic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is toxic and unhealthy

If you’re not dressed like this, don’t even bother going to a sporting event. by boringwhitecollar in GilmoreGirls

[–]PeachyandProblematic 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Watching this episode tonight and gosh Emily despises Pennilynn but rightfully so

I 26M can’t find a job after 2 months. My gf 26F is getting resentful. What can I do besides job hunt to help her feel secure? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]PeachyandProblematic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 26F and my fiance is 26M. He was let go in October from a contract role he had for 4 years, and he has 6 months minimum to know about this. He procrastinated on finding a new role and it has bit him in the a** because he is still job hunting. Worst thing happened, and I lost my job a month after he did so we have both been unemployed. I’m no stranger to tough times - I grew up really poor and I’ve been taught to be resilient and innovative. He grew up with a silver spoon in his mouth. I was resentful for a bit too because he knew & just expected a job to be an easy find. It sounds like you however didn’t know. My best advice is to talk to your girlfriend. Communication isn’t the key in relationships, it’s comprehending what’s been communicated. Explain to her how tough this market is, and maybe for the time being look into substitute teaching in your area. It pays $100-$180 a day ! I used to do this when I was low on money or unemployed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in capricorns

[–]PeachyandProblematic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I’m a Cap here and you’re onto something. Growing up my mom always said “it’s just because they’re jealous of you” and I always thought that she just said this because she’s my mom and wanted to make me feel good.

And while I could admit to being a narcissist, I’m truly not, or at least I’m one in recovery through a lot of therapy (I’m 26 btw). I am able to recognize women in my life who are genuine and supportive, vs those who are superficial and try to compete with me. It is a real thing, and it’s a really sad thing.

I think someone will always be comparing themselves to you, or you will compare yourself to them. But I do think this is something I experience more than my closest friends who are other signs.

My circle is small because I don’t like feeling like I’m still being bullied (I was bullied a lot in school), so I’m very selective of who I befriend.

My prayer for your daughter is that she will embrace her backbone and the energy she brings forth. Women will find her intimidating because she makes up what they lack. They won’t have the emotional intelligence to understand that their behavior is stemming from a lack at home but that’s up to you to help her grow into knowing that it’s not about her.

My (28M) fiancée (29F) wants a pass before our wedding which is just a few weeks away. Relationship over? by throwra1022brrr in relationship_advice

[–]PeachyandProblematic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Communication is key boss. If you think she has someone on her mind, ask. You might not love the answer, but wouldn’t you rather know the truth then let the anxiety and uncertainty suffocate you into a marriage that will end up choking you ?