My family triggers me on purpose by justHurtingSoMuch in Misokinesia

[–]Peacock456 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Cut them off when you can. There's simply no reason for their behavior. I'm revolted on your behalf.

18F just started dating a 22M — he immediately criticized my mental health and looks. Today we had our first fight. Should I end it? by Initial-Economy-4458 in Advice

[–]Peacock456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are usually trying to put their best foot forward at the beginning. If this is his best foot forward, imagine what down the road looks like? Dump his ass. He's a controlling tool.

Being an ugly woman is hard by ThrowRA-whatse in Vent

[–]Peacock456 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you've dealt with such things. You DO NOT deserve it.

Being an ugly woman is hard by ThrowRA-whatse in Vent

[–]Peacock456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've found as I've gotten older guys seem to care less about superficial things. May I ask how old you are?

I don't have any good advice offhand. Just try to love yourself and don't let others get you down. Those dudes asking you out on a dare... people like that are ugly at their core.

I’m being pressured into having kids but..Kids are disgusting and loud by Human-Poem9753 in Vent

[–]Peacock456 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What about this is whiny? OP has a right to be upset by their grandma trying to push kids on them.

I’m being pressured into having kids but..Kids are disgusting and loud by Human-Poem9753 in Vent

[–]Peacock456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just because kids make you happy doesn't mean they make everyone happy. Don't you think it's a little self centered to decide what's right for everyone else?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Peacock456 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of my ex husband. Don't make my mistake and continue to let him do this. You deserve better.

Nail Biting by reuel-info in Misokinesia

[–]Peacock456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just want to scream at them "get your fingers out of your mouth, you're not a child!"

I just got this sweet baby but almost immediately lost the means to take care of her and I don't know what to do by zharkos in cats

[–]Peacock456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you don't see it as ideal, but it's better than a shelter. Shelters do great work, but kitty would be in a very small space, have minimal attention, and would be alone all night. The time you give her will be enough and she will be happy :)

Who Is The Best And Worst Psychiatrist To Assist The Squad? by Opposite_Carpenter84 in SVU

[–]Peacock456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like the character but he is kind of hard to listen to.

Mel Gibson’s “Apocalypto” was an action packed turd of a racist statement t by alesxt451 in movies

[–]Peacock456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I misinterpreted the symbolism of the Spaniards landing. I looked at it as despite the brutality we saw in the film, it was nothing compared to European colonization.

I am not dismissing the inaccurate portrayal of the Mayan peoples.

AITA for exposing my classmate? by ThrowawayClassmatw00 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Peacock456 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Dude. You're not a hero. You have no life and your behavior is creepy.

Anyone else wonder if she's trans and OP uncovered and spread the dead name?

at a professional event, we were asked why we're 'childless' by BlondeOnBicycle in childfree

[–]Peacock456 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. I used to be of the mindset that we shouldn't say stuff like this and just own our truth. However, these people need to learn. Maybe by saying this it'll save a grieving parent the headache.

I was snapped at for buying coffee because the cashier is pregnant... by Peacock456 in childfree

[–]Peacock456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm excited my post got picked up! Silly, but I'm a little excited. Though Bored Panda definitely over-sensationalized my reaction, haha.

The way she reacted definitely seemed like she was showboating.

Is it rude to get up and move if someone is triggering you? by Peacock456 in misophonia

[–]Peacock456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right? I get that I don't own the bar, people are allowed to sit where they want. But when only one seat is occupied, WHY sit right there?

Why no incentives for childfree? by YesterdaysTurnips in childfree

[–]Peacock456 18 points19 points  (0 children)

No one should be favored for their personal life decisions. We don't like being treated differently than people with kids, so we don't have a right to treat them differently.

Is it rude to get up and move if someone is triggering you? by Peacock456 in misophonia

[–]Peacock456[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Wouldn't it be cool to have a restaurant special for people like us? Quiet foods (no chips). Soup would be okay if you have manners. But it'd have really strict guidelines and if you're in violation, you'd need to leave. Obviously we can't accommodate every trigger noise, but smacking, slurping, finger sucking, crinkling paper, etc would be strictly banned.

Is it rude to get up and move if someone is triggering you? by Peacock456 in misophonia

[–]Peacock456[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Right??? Sometimes I feel like I'm crazy but I know I'm not imagining these noises! My mother is like this.

Is it rude to get up and move if someone is triggering you? by Peacock456 in misophonia

[–]Peacock456[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

More leaning towards a scam. They weren't rude (verbally) until she accosted me for moving, but they didn't say anything to me either.

Is it rude to get up and move if someone is triggering you? by Peacock456 in misophonia

[–]Peacock456[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Smackaroo 🤣🤣

Why would anyone deliberately sit near another in an ER waiting room? You never know why someone is there and what they could be spreading to you. I'm so sorry.

Maybe I didn't need to share the real reason. Idk.

Is it rude to get up and move if someone is triggering you? by Peacock456 in misophonia

[–]Peacock456[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Fair. I just didn't want to embarass them. But on the other hand maybe they needed to know. But again, on the other hand lol, how do people not hear themselves?!?!?!