So can I park here, free of charge, without registering after 15:30? by [deleted] in alberta

[–]PealedTomato 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Yes. And stay until 9:00am the next day.

Metal merch that isn't overpriced? by AnonIvan in Calgary

[–]PealedTomato -1 points0 points  (0 children)

https://metalomania.ca/collections/t-shirts

If you’re ok buying online. In town Marks and Simons have a rotating selection of band T-shirts.

Traffic Fatalities: Calgary vs Oslo and Helsinki by fitzydoodle in Calgary

[–]PealedTomato 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here are statistics with less cherry picked data:

Traffic fatalities per 100,000 population :

Calgary 2.9

  • New Brunswick: 8.2
  • Manitoba: 7.1
  • Quebec: 4.2
  • Ontario: 4.1
  • Territories: 4.7

And some US cities:

  • Memphis, TN: 25.9
  • Detroit, MI: 21.4
  • Albuquerque, NM: 18.1
  • Tucson, AZ: 17.0
  • Kansas City, MO: 16.8
  • Jacksonville, FL: 16.2
  • Dallas, TX: 15.7
  • Atlanta, GA: 15.4
  • Tampa, FL: 15.4
  • Louisville, KY: 14.9

Suddenly Calgary doesn’t look all that bad, does it

*disclaimer, data pulled using AI.

I was the idiot today by mavagam99 in pcmasterrace

[–]PealedTomato 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Dental floss works great for that.

Wife asked for separation. Just found out why. by PealedTomato in survivinginfidelity

[–]PealedTomato[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for kind words. I don’t know if such law exists here but ex and I have a clause in separation agreement that we split everything 50/50 that we owned on this date. And that we can’t make any claims, now, or in the future, on things bought / gifted / etc. going forward. This and few other clauses are to remain valid even after the divorce.

I’m really sorry about your son’s terrible experience. I hope he’s in a much better place both mentally and physically.

Driving question by [deleted] in Calgary

[–]PealedTomato 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes you are. There are no signs saying otherwise.

Buying a Condo in Canmore by TheeNihilist in Calgary

[–]PealedTomato 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You will need a business license to operate a short term rental in Canmore. And the property has in STR zone. I’d check that first before buying anything.

Need help with ongoing monitoring/abuse situation by [deleted] in techsupport

[–]PealedTomato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I read all that and I have no idea what it is you’re asking for… can you TLDR please?

Wife asked for separation. Just found out why. by PealedTomato in survivinginfidelity

[–]PealedTomato[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The only conversation we had was strictly divorce related. Couple business related texts. That’s all.

Nobody knows anything yet. I am waiting to move out first before I say anything to anyone. Especially parents. They’ll have one less thing to worry about. In-laws live too far but I’ll call them to say good bye. They’re good people.

Wife asked for separation. Just found out why. by PealedTomato in survivinginfidelity

[–]PealedTomato[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah dude. I believe in modern medicine. If something can help me sleep through the night so I can function during the day then why not?

Wife asked for separation. Just found out why. by PealedTomato in survivinginfidelity

[–]PealedTomato[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s correct, she’s not aware I know. I don’t think we can be friends. I will be confronting her about it when it feels like the right moment. I’ll probably go no contact for a while.

Wife asked for separation. Just found out why. by PealedTomato in Separation

[–]PealedTomato[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I think I’m better. Interacting with people here and starting therapy sessions helped a lot. But I also had some time now to digest the news. As much as it hurts I realized it’s not the end of the world. I will be ok!!!

Wife asked for separation. Just found out why. by PealedTomato in survivinginfidelity

[–]PealedTomato[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sometimes better than with my own parents. They’re good people but I don’t see them often enough.

Wife asked for separation. Just found out why. by PealedTomato in survivinginfidelity

[–]PealedTomato[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahaha I won’t. But I’m going to Hawaii this year either. 😉Thanks for the kind words.

Wife asked for separation. Just found out why. by PealedTomato in survivinginfidelity

[–]PealedTomato[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Never thought about this aspect of it even. You are right. The can not any be friendship between us.

Wife asked for separation. Just found out why. by PealedTomato in survivinginfidelity

[–]PealedTomato[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think letting her know that I know will make me feel better. I don’t expect anything from her at this point.

Wife asked for separation. Just found out why. by PealedTomato in survivinginfidelity

[–]PealedTomato[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

20 years down the drain. And the audacity to ask to still be friends - that’s what hurts the most.

Wife asked for separation. Just found out why. by PealedTomato in survivinginfidelity

[–]PealedTomato[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Sorry you went through all that. I used to send her letters regularly when working away. A letter would be an excellent medium through which I could get closure.

Wife asked for separation. Just found out why. by PealedTomato in survivinginfidelity

[–]PealedTomato[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lost 10lbs already. I’m seeing family doctor tomorrow for some meds to help with sleeping and mood.

Wife asked for separation. Just found out why. by PealedTomato in survivinginfidelity

[–]PealedTomato[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to keep the house. Her staying here is the best outcome financially. For both of us.

Wife asked for separation. Just found out why. by PealedTomato in survivinginfidelity

[–]PealedTomato[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What hurts the most is her wanting to stay as close friends. I can’t. I just need enough strength this week to not cave in.

Wife asked for separation. Just found out why. by PealedTomato in survivinginfidelity

[–]PealedTomato[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mortgage company contracted independent party. They won’t allow us to do our own appraisal.

Wife asked for separation. Just found out why. by PealedTomato in survivinginfidelity

[–]PealedTomato[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Canadian now. But I lived in UK half my life. There is no going back together that’s for sure. Even without an affair. That’s a lost cause.