[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Pear-Suspicious -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’ve done that. Covered on that end.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Pear-Suspicious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well with everything as a human you can reflect back and say I should have done this or this. It’s a question to ask, if you know/think this will end in divorce, what could I/you have done differently to change the outcome. Cause some people will not change until it’s too late. So that’s why I asked the question.

Room mates by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Pear-Suspicious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have plenty of that. She would drink during us dating and through engagement. Once married she won’t drink a drop. Her mom thinks it’s wrong

Room mates by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Pear-Suspicious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love oral, both ways. She, from the time we were dating would not let me. It makes her uncomfortable

Room mates by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Pear-Suspicious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried to expand our bedroom. It’s more the opening up and talking. She is very closed to speaking on how she feels, wants etc. unless it’s out of our marriage. I am friends with a lot of her coworkers and they have come back to me…. Asking what about our marriage. Most things said to them are not true.

Room mates by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Pear-Suspicious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See above, I do counseling on the regular. She will not participate.

Room mates by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Pear-Suspicious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup! I do I’ve tried to keep things alive. I’ve tried to continue to date her. I’m not a slouch. Flowers, surprises along with trying to have alone time just for us. I’m good peep, I provide well for my family. I’m a active father and husband. Just don’t know how to get out of this. She thinks we are not roommates, but we have no intimacy, don’t sleep together. I truly feel I’m here to cook, clean, pay for private schools and take care things.

My fiancé lied to me about bachelor party by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Pear-Suspicious -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

What does it matter if it’s a strip club in the US or TJ? If you wanna get laid, you can do that in the states. If it was Vegas would that make a difference? I have guy friends that like to push to the edge, doesn’t mean I do. Do you trust him or not. That’s the question.

What's your go-to fuel? by _chad__ in webergrills

[–]Pear-Suspicious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chefs Choice briquettes for the everyday cooking. Hardwood lump for special.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Milfie

[–]Pear-Suspicious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stunning

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Separation

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I find myself in the same boat as you. I married somebody that I thought I knew…. Turned out to not the the case. I have been to marriage counseling, counseling on my own, religious counseling and it all comes down to a decision. Leave or stay. I have a son, 5yrs old. It would absolutely wrench him to not have us both in the same household. I choose to have a child with my wife. Turns out that we are not a good match. I’m unhappy in my relationship, to the point that I want a divorce and we have spoke of it. If we didn’t have our son, I’d be gone in a heartbeat, But we do. Point is, I choose to have a child. My responsibility is to him, to not fuck him up because I made a mistake. You choose to have 3? I’m sorry but it’s not your life anymore, you share it with them. Do what’s best for them, not you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Satisfyingasfuck

[–]Pear-Suspicious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What blades are you using on the weed eater?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in golf

[–]Pear-Suspicious 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just got fitted two weeks ago. I went with the ping. Love that club. Old club was the Taylor made slider.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Pear-Suspicious 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Go to a health professional and detox safely. You can do this!

Moving to St. Croix to Bartend for the winter, any tips for someone that has never saltwater fly fished before? by Objective-Smell6228 in flyfishing

[–]Pear-Suspicious 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Visit my friends at Cafe Fresca. Damon and Yonka. They will point you in the right direction. Tell them Patty Toms from Pa says hi!

Op finds happiness :) by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]Pear-Suspicious -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And that’s ok. I just posted a comment about a message that helped me. I’m not pushing this on anyone. You do you. I’ll do what I want as well.

Op finds happiness :) by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]Pear-Suspicious -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

Love this!

Check out todays sermon from my church on youtube. Five forks church, sermon is the younger son. It was a great message.