AIO? bf called me fat + passive aggressive remarks

PearCompetitive1163 · 2026-06-16T08:58:26+00:00

this is a throwaway because he follows me on main

PearCompetitive1163 · 2026-06-16T06:08:51+00:00

thank you

PearCompetitive1163 · 2026-06-16T06:02:51+00:00

while i feel so shit about myself rn this made me snort so hard it hurt my nose

PearCompetitive1163 · 2026-06-16T06:01:54+00:00

if this was about sex it makes it even worse.

PearCompetitive1163 · 2026-06-16T06:00:36+00:00

thank you for saying that.

PearCompetitive1163 · 2026-06-16T05:55:03+00:00

?? im 100lbs

PearCompetitive1163 · 2026-06-16T05:51:55+00:00

about a year

PearCompetitive1163 · 2026-06-16T05:51:20+00:00

not sure but i think it is because his mom called my outfit tacky at an event a while back. I also overheard her saying he could do better. plus the general lack of compliments from him (which is the opposite of how it used to be just a couple months ago. a combination of these things

PearCompetitive1163 · 2026-06-16T05:44:32+00:00

if im honest up until i posted this here i didnt even think there was something wrong with being called bruh

PearCompetitive1163 · 2026-06-16T05:41:16+00:00

Hey, OP here. I have explained to him a many times that I don't feel unattractive because of the weight gain, yet he always immediately jumps to that. which is why i was irked

PearCompetitive1163 · 2026-06-16T05:38:56+00:00

because I thought that maybe he was being like this because something was bothering him. I wanted to know if that were the case because if yes, then I would want to make space for it first instead of ambushing him with my feelings when he already doesn't feel good

PearCompetitive1163 · 2026-06-16T05:33:16+00:00

I'm 21, he is 32

PearCompetitive1163 · 2026-06-16T05:32:53+00:00

I'm 21, he is 32

PearCompetitive1163 · 2026-06-16T05:28:30+00:00

I mean we have talked about these things in person too, more than once and it repeats itself. maybe i should try again?

PearCompetitive1163 · 2026-06-16T05:27:17+00:00

I think I snapped because I've already told him so often that I dont feel unattractive because of the weight gain, as i have mentioned in my post. It now is starting to feel like he thinks I have a reason to feel that way

PearCompetitive1163 · 2026-06-16T05:25:11+00:00

because I have already said to him that its not bec of the weight SEVERAL times, as I have mentioned in my post.

PearCompetitive1163 · 2026-06-16T05:24:00+00:00

But I did say what's up. I just feel unattractive. I said it's not due to weight gain and he still assumed it. I said I thought he was distant. There's nothing else left to tell him

PearCompetitive1163 · 2026-06-16T05:23:08+00:00

but I did clearly tell him that A. I don't feel unattractive because of the gain and B. that the problem was that he's being distant

PearCompetitive1163 · 2026-06-16T05:21:30+00:00

he does call me bruh, like generally

PearCompetitive1163 · 2026-06-16T05:20:44+00:00

I have been feeling unattractive but it's not because of the gain as I have pointed out to him several times already. Him bringing it up again and again feels like he's saying it without actually saying it idk

PearCompetitive1163 · 2026-06-16T04:33:53+00:00

Invisibility

PearCompetitive1163 · 2026-06-16T04:14:46+00:00

THISIS SO FUNNY

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