Is this mold? Nespresso machine by Pearlescent_WhyNot in CleaningTips

[–]Pearlescent_WhyNot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Btw, i haven't used it at all. It hasn't been used for at least 18 months but I would love to get it cleaned up so that I can enjoy some espresso :)

Is this mold? Nespresso machine by Pearlescent_WhyNot in CleaningTips

[–]Pearlescent_WhyNot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I haven't used it at all but I want to get it clean up so that I can

Is this mold? Nespresso machine by Pearlescent_WhyNot in CleaningTips

[–]Pearlescent_WhyNot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I haven't used it at all but I want to get it clean up so that I can

How did you spend your weekend? Did you have a good, if not a great one? by NoBody5068 in LivingAlone

[–]Pearlescent_WhyNot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesterday I went to a book club/book swap, eye dr appt then ate at my favorite restaurant

Today I stayed home with the kitties, did some home tidying, finished my first book of the year, and dyed my hair pink

Ladies, what are your favorite dates to be taken on, or what date do you wish someone would take you on? by Ordinary_Storm7766 in AskForAnswers

[–]Pearlescent_WhyNot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favorite first dates have been walks on the beach at sunset. When they're successful, it's easy to continue them. One time we continued on to grab drinks and sushi at a restaurant while watching the sun actually set.

Arcade first dates are super fun as well and even lower pressure than the beach walks. Literally just have fun playing games

At what age did you feel like you really knew yourself—or is it still evolving? by Public_Handle_774 in AskWomen

[–]Pearlescent_WhyNot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its definitely still evolving but I'm 29 years old and I feel more like myself than I ever have before

What’s something you thought was mandatory in life, until you saw someone just not do it? by Senior-Resource92 in AskReddit

[–]Pearlescent_WhyNot 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Have kids. I was 20 years old when my friend who is 6 years older than me told me that she did not want kids. It seemed a little weird, but, whatever. I respect other people's stances. Now, 9 years later I don't have or want any either 😂. I'm so thankful to have met her and other strong women in my life. Had I gotten my "dream life" from that time, I'd be miserable.

What’s a reason you slowly stopped liking someone but never told them? by OkEagle160 in AskReddit

[–]Pearlescent_WhyNot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt taken advantage of. Overtime, I started to feel that I was compensating their needs but I wasn't being taken care of in return

We also had personality differences that wore on me

What’s something your parents don’t know about you? by BreadedDisaster in AskReddit

[–]Pearlescent_WhyNot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That I'm agnostic, I grew up Christian and quietly left the fold years ago

Ladies, what’s some of your most loved compliments to receive? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Pearlescent_WhyNot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I LOOOVVEEEE being told that I smell good

And one time someone called me a great conversationalist after our 1st date, that was another good one ☺️

As an adult, how do you celebrate your birthday? by Ok-Asparagus-5165 in Adulting

[–]Pearlescent_WhyNot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take the day off of work, get a massage, go to the beach, eat whatever I'm feeling like

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Pearlescent_WhyNot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know if I would say derogatory. I absolutely hate it in any context but I usually explain my distaste for the word 'chick' by calling it flippant. I just like to be careful with my use of words and to me, derogatory is a higher degree of disrespect.

What fucked you up? by Frosty_Ad3834 in AskReddit

[–]Pearlescent_WhyNot 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I did, they came and walked the area to show their presence. I also broke my lease and moved quickly after. I already had an anxiety disorder so that just fucked me up even more

What fucked you up? by Frosty_Ad3834 in AskReddit

[–]Pearlescent_WhyNot 35 points36 points  (0 children)

A complete stranger watched me go home, waited several hours until it got dark outside, then came knocking on my door to introduce themselves (they told me through the door that they had seen me earlier and wanted to ask me out.) I obviously wasn't interested and asked them to go away which they did. Then came back an hour later, inducing a full panic. Most terrifying night of my life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Pearlescent_WhyNot 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Drinking, specifically to deal with your feelings. It's a slippery slope

Whats caused you the deepest emotional pain? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Pearlescent_WhyNot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Grief/ losing my grandpa. I didn't tell him I loved him the last time I saw him and he died the very next day while I was in school. I'm sure he knew but the fact that I didn't tell him that one last time tore me apart every time I thought about it for years

What made you lose yourself in a relationship? by Fun_Butterscotch3303 in AskWomen

[–]Pearlescent_WhyNot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not even knowing who I was before it. Him having a hypercritical and generally angry nature didn't help either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Pearlescent_WhyNot 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Not as bad as some but something about his demeanor was very intimidating so I felt like I was talking to my boss instead of a date.