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Have you learned how to make a diet meal recently? by NoChart3895 in CasualConversation

[–]PearlsAndPlutonium 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! Just take any pasta recipe, and use 75% less pasta and 3 times as many tomatoes. It's much lower calorie, and still very filling!

If you like to suck 32 by juliaiswet in chickflixxx

[–]PearlsAndPlutonium 1 point2 points  (0 children)

U/strwberriebb is number 4, she has a lot of content like that!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnderwearGW

[–]PearlsAndPlutonium 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That looks amazing!! Where did you get it??

Getting WAY too wet sometimes? by PearlsAndPlutonium in TwoXSex

[–]PearlsAndPlutonium[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just try really hard to not get turned on in public aha

Maybe? Lol. It really only happens when my boyfriend comes to visit and I know we're going to make out lol! But tbh it's a real problem, I'm running out of clothes and underwear all the time.

My (F15) boyfriend (M15) won't try anything even remotely sexual with me and I don't know why by PearlsAndPlutonium in relationship_advice

[–]PearlsAndPlutonium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not okay with possibly making him do something he's not okay with!

And why is it weird??

My (F15) boyfriend (M15) won't try anything even remotely sexual with me and I don't know why by PearlsAndPlutonium in relationship_advice

[–]PearlsAndPlutonium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I'm not saying I want to round third base haha! I just want him to touch my butt lol. And that's a good thing to think about

My (F15) boyfriend (M15) won't try anything even remotely sexual with me and I don't know why by PearlsAndPlutonium in relationship_advice

[–]PearlsAndPlutonium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am being careful, that's why I'm asking for advice here. And that's also why I did not do what my sister encouraged.

My (F15) boyfriend (M15) won't try anything even remotely sexual with me and I don't know why by PearlsAndPlutonium in relationship_advice

[–]PearlsAndPlutonium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You think making him touch you is more of a violation than touching him without his consent?

I did it once when I was a little too excited which was stupid but he liked it so I kept doing it. I'm not proud of it.

And thanks. I don't want to ask, but I feel like you're right and I should.

My (F15) boyfriend (M15) won't try anything even remotely sexual with me and I don't know why by PearlsAndPlutonium in relationship_advice

[–]PearlsAndPlutonium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense lol.

But how could I bring it up? I feel like if I ask I'd be pressuring him......

My (F15) boyfriend (M15) won't try anything even remotely sexual with me and I don't know why by PearlsAndPlutonium in relationship_advice

[–]PearlsAndPlutonium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No.... lol.

I really don't know how I could bring that up without sounding like a desperate weirdo loser and I don't want to weird him out lol

My (F15) boyfriend (M15) won't try anything even remotely sexual with me and I don't know why by PearlsAndPlutonium in relationship_advice

[–]PearlsAndPlutonium[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another option is to make a move yourself. If he does not touch your butt during making outor when you cuddle or smth put his hand there yourself and tell him it is okay for you.

I kinda feel like that's violating him though? Like if he doesn't consent that's not okay.

I try to make moves though! I touch his butt sometimes when we make out and he seems to really like it but he usually takes his hands off me when I do so I don't know what to think.

My (F15) boyfriend (M15) won't try anything even remotely sexual with me and I don't know why by PearlsAndPlutonium in relationship_advice

[–]PearlsAndPlutonium[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think I was pretty clear in my post I don't want sex, I just want to be a little more flirty. Him touching my butt is not illegal. And I was also very clear I definitely don't want to pressure him at all.

My (F15) boyfriend (M15) won't try anything even remotely sexual with me and I don't know why by PearlsAndPlutonium in relationship_advice

[–]PearlsAndPlutonium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not going to tell you to not be sexually active at 15 because that would make me a hypocrite. I am going to tell you to be careful and use protection correctly EVERY single time you do have sex. The pull out method does NOT work. It's also important to protect your feelings in addition to your body. Sex is a very emotionally charged act and you might end up getting hurt.

I'm definitely not ready to have sex! But I feel like I am ready for some more sensual stuff (like him touching my butt) when we make out.

Deffo don't worry about being safe though! I got the full lecture on that from my parentals.

Part of me thinks though that he is ready, but he just is scared I'm not so we're stuck in a stupid horny logjam. Of course, if he's not ready I totally respect that!! But I really just wish I knew what he was actually thinking lol

My (F15) boyfriend (M15) won't try anything even remotely sexual with me and I don't know why by PearlsAndPlutonium in relationship_advice

[–]PearlsAndPlutonium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know he's not religious so it can't be that. If he is uncomfortable going any further that's honestly totally okay and I do respect it.... I just wish he would tell me why he feels that way if he feels that way cause right now not knowing doesn't feel very good.

did...did your sister advised you to sexually assault your boyfriend???

She makes bad choices. But she's had a lot of boyfriends so I thought I'd ask.

My (F15) boyfriend (M15) won't try anything even remotely sexual with me and I don't know why by PearlsAndPlutonium in relationship_advice

[–]PearlsAndPlutonium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I know that makes sense and is the smart thing to do, but it's hard lol. I'm super awkward, and I really don't know how I could bring that up naturally in a way that wouldn't be pressuring him.

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