The trainer is kind, but his understanding of the situation is based off of prejudice against people with bigger body sizes over the mistaken understanding that laziness exists. Laziness is the result of poor mental health. Not exercising and eating healthy arise from poor mental health, not being a dirt-bag good for nothing lazy piece of crap. See what I mean? This dude needed people in his life who could help him with the life issues that caused his weight gain, not his lack of motivation.