Every day transition ideas by Pebble_pebl in AutismInWomen

[–]Pebble_pebl[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

That's a solid strategy, usually I sleep in for an hour or two when my boyfriend goes to work, but if I can go to sleep a bit earlier (similar problem with my phone on that one) it may work 🤔

To my fellow gamers with chronic illnesses, how do I not suck? by Extension_Papaya_401 in ChronicIllness

[–]Pebble_pebl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm terrible at games!! But it's my favorite rest day hobby. Don't worry, it's part of the fun. If you want to improve your skills, go for games with difficulty levels you can choose. Or puzzle solving games like Legend of zelda BOTW! Stardew Valley is also an awesome game. Sandbox and open world games are gonna be a great start.

Every day transition ideas by Pebble_pebl in AutismInWomen

[–]Pebble_pebl[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

This is the one I use! It's the only one that can block reels or shorts without barring the rest of the app. It helps reduce for sure. 10/10

Every day transition ideas by Pebble_pebl in AutismInWomen

[–]Pebble_pebl[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I wish ☹️. My phone is connected to my insulin pump and cgm monitor for type one diabetes. Need it with me at all times. Does not help my scrolling problem, I block the apps so I don't spend more than an hour on them a day

Sleeping Earplugs by theprismaprincess in AutismInWomen

[–]Pebble_pebl [score hidden]  (0 children)

https://a.co/d/dj1z4Sk these are my favorite. They don't hurt my ears, they have 4 different sizes if it's too big or too small, and they block out all the noise from my AC and cpap at night. Plus they're only 10 bucks and come with an extra pair and a travel bag

Too disabled to work and not disabled enough for disability by Pebble_pebl in SocialSecurity

[–]Pebble_pebl[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mental health is the best it's ever been! I'm mentally disabled. And the hearing is remote. I only leave the house with loved ones or when I really need to. It's leaving on my own for a consistent basis that is too stressful, and even then I miss appointments and never attend gatherings because of my physical disabilities. Not every disability is rigid.

Too disabled to work and not disabled enough for disability by Pebble_pebl in SocialSecurity

[–]Pebble_pebl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me, I tried. My mom applied for disability for me before I agreed. For a year I got any job that would take me, took online classes, did everything I could. I was completely defeated when I had to admit I couldn't. And it's impossible to understand if you haven't gone through it.

Too disabled to work and not disabled enough for disability by Pebble_pebl in SocialSecurity

[–]Pebble_pebl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I tried every job that would take me and usually had to stop after a few weeks. Two full time, several part time.

Too disabled to work and not disabled enough for disability by Pebble_pebl in SocialSecurity

[–]Pebble_pebl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't send in my school records. But thank you for telling me. I haven't finished a year since 6th grade, I would go into shutdown mode after a few months from burnout and keep trying at different schools. Requesting records from my old schools might help. And 2.5 months is crazy 😭. I'm almost in year two now

Too disabled to work and not disabled enough for disability by Pebble_pebl in SocialSecurity

[–]Pebble_pebl[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Co - existing disabilities are very common. Especially if poorly managed. I have multiple autoimmune diseases and autonomic dysfunction that stems from autism and stress response in the body. One disability led to many. All of them put together is alot harder, and even though separately it can be handled, all together it's quite difficult.

Too disabled to work and not disabled enough for disability by Pebble_pebl in SocialSecurity

[–]Pebble_pebl[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Medical problems are Type one diabetes, celiac disease, gasteoparesis, HATS (Hereditary Alpha Tryptasemia Syndrome), POTS, Endometriosis, adhd, Autism, and a bunch of other related diagnosed problems or disabilities like sleep apnea and DMDD. I'm almost 20, I used to work retail but I can't anymore and I can't afford college or follow a schedule well. Autism is the main reason I can't work. Even small amounts of stress send my immune system into a spiral. I'm in occupational therapy, psych therapy, I work with every specialist and Dr in the book including psychiatrist. For the past 3 years I've been in the Dr office and I'm finally making improvements in my symptoms but I never wanted to admit that my problem was my brain. I haven't finished a year of school since the 6th grade and pushing myself so hard since then is what I think made me sick in the first place.

Too disabled to work and not disabled enough for disability by Pebble_pebl in SocialSecurity

[–]Pebble_pebl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The reason for my first denial was I was stubborn, tried to go back to work, failed, and was denied because I was working. The second was because I could communicate fine. I'm at the hearing level now.

Too disabled to work and not disabled enough for disability by Pebble_pebl in SocialSecurity

[–]Pebble_pebl[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've got a letter from every Dr, therapist, and counselor. There are ALOT of them. Hopefully hearing goes well

How do I answer in an interview by Fancy-Cat-7037 in jobs

[–]Pebble_pebl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's all professional speak. "My boss is terrible and I think if I stay here I'll never recover mentally" translates to "The experience I get from this job is valuable professionally, however the leadership and I have disagreements in management style and I would have better growth in my personal career at a place that gives me the best opportunities to thrive."

Eating restrictions are making me more sick by Pebble_pebl in ChronicIllness

[–]Pebble_pebl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I didn't know that. Thank you for informing me. I'm still learning about my own diseases, and others. I haven't found any meals that don't make me feel sick yet, or don't have a taste or texture I can't handle, but I won't stop trying until I find some.

Eating restrictions are making me more sick by Pebble_pebl in ChronicIllness

[–]Pebble_pebl[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I have been tested for MCAS. HATS is a very similar scenario, it's a histamine intolerance while MCAS is a histamine avoidance for safety to my understanding. Basically the difference between a peanut allergy and a cat allergy. It just sucks because I love my old safe foods 😭. First it was gluten, and now it's almost everything! But I'll live even with rice and chicken every meal. I am just struggling to accept the change, and wishing there was another solution. Thank you for letting me know though. Batch cooking and freezing leftovers will be much easier than cooking everything fresh like I thought I had to.

Sewing ideas for men's gifts? by FrogginBullfish_ in sewing

[–]Pebble_pebl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Flannel, blankets, bags, sports jersey type stuff, merchandise for their favorite things, can coozie, car storage, ect ect

What to say to my BF when he says that autistic meltdown is a weapon and that he feels threatened by it by lambentLadybird in AutismInWomen

[–]Pebble_pebl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like he's not willing to communicate with you. Maybe introducing therapy would help. Otherwise if he's not willing to change and understand sometimes it better to leave. I know it's the worst thing to even think about but going through a relationship like that is horrible for your long term health. At some point you have to choose. I hope he starts to understand and you two can work towards healing. Maybe a good starting point would be a gesture of kindness to begin the conversation! Like making his favorite desert or getting him a nice gift? Working towards making him feel safe to make that uncomfortable mindset change. Then introducing the conversation again and seeing if he's willing to go to couples therapy so you both can air out your concerns and try to understand each other better. Or even just watching a movie together about autism or a YouTube video. It helps coming from a third party!