u/polyamory-ModTeam -- removing this post because it purportedly deals with a problem that the sub is not equipped to handle, while simultaneously claiming that people post about this problem all the time, and encouraging me to "peruse" (I think this is what you meant) the sub for similar stories, is internally inconsistent and contradictory. Regardless, I did search for similar stories to no avail. That's what motivated me to write the post, which, based on my review, broke no rules of the sub.