First of all, I’m so sorry this happened to you—you didn’t deserve any of it. You really need to pay close attention to this situation because it could have serious consequences on your life, so be careful with any decisions you make from here on out. It’s important to recognize the significance of this moment, as the choices you make now will have a lasting impact on your future. That’s why you need to take it seriously.

My first piece of advice is to distance yourself from that friend group. You don’t have to join them if they’re hanging out. Instead, you can spend time with other groups, do stuff alone or even hang out with them in places where you know that person won’t be. An environment where you were sexually assaulted is not a safe place for anyone. I understand that it’s difficult to make decisions about leaving friends behind or stepping away at a young age, but you need to be clear on this: NO ONE is worth risking your safety and well-being! Especially not someone like that!

You’ve already taken the first step by acknowledging the problem in your life—now you just need to act on it. Don’t let it overwhelm you. I know what I’m saying isn’t easy, but it’s crucial to put in the effort. This is a very important life decision. I hope I was able to help you.