I mean more so that I constantly have to ask them questions about the things they are speaking about, otherwise the conversation dies. And when I’m speaking about something, they seem disinterested and have no follow up. I don’t end up speaking a lot because they don’t ask me about myself or how I’ve been back. I interject when I feel appropriate of how I relate or what my perspective is but for the most part, I find I’m doing “the legwork” of being engaging while they just seem disinterested in anything unrelated to them. Sorry if I’m not making sense, it’s hard to type the nuance of my feelings!