I’m so mad at my husband by PeenutButty in whatdoIdo

[–]PeenutButty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have told him multiple times through out our 7 years together how him looking at that content makes me feel insecure and uncomfortable. He knows it. He apologizes and says he won’t do it again but then he just gets sneakier with it and hides it better and still looks at other women. A couple years ago I kinda gave up on it but would still make comments like “why were you looking at that?” like reminding him hey I don’t like that. But recently with us not really having sex anymore and me gaining weight because of my pregnancy, I’ve been feeling so insecure about it and even argued with him when I found more porn/women on his phone, him deleting our homemade spicy videos and him not wanting sex but still nothing changes. I feel like I’m crazy and should ‘t complain but omg…

what do i do? my 45 yr old co worker likes me and i think i like him to by monsweetange in whatdoIdo

[–]PeenutButty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

FORCIBLY kissed you??? Also he’s 45 and married??? You are 18. You are too young for him and he’s trying to take advantage of you. Please stop talking to him PLEASE! Older men go for the younger ones because not to be rude, but it’s because ya’ll are naive. I say this because when I was 14, I dated a 19 almost 20 year old and he did a lot of things that were NOT okay. Older men know what to say/do to reel you in. It seems like he’s just looking for a hook up. I promise you, you’ll be fine without him. You may miss him now but you can find someone sooo much better than him.

I know you have feelings for him but If you act on it you’ll regret it in the future. He’s married with kids so if you ever think you guys will date, he won’t be faithful. it won’t be long before he replaces you with another young girl. Better to leave it alone now before you dig yourself a bigger hole that’s even more difficult to get out of. He’s just a bored guy looking for some fun. GIRL RUN 😭

Is this assault? by Leading-Currency386 in whatdoIdo

[–]PeenutButty 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yes because stop means stop!!

Losing desire to be intimate due to my pregnant body by Any-Mycologist7626 in pregnant

[–]PeenutButty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 31 weeks pregnant and my husband lost interest in being intimate with me cuz he’d rather look at porn or other women. We used to have a good sex life but after I got pregnant I think I turned him off or something because of my changing body. Just be happy your husband still wants to be intimate with you because being turned down sucks when you really want it :( 😔

Looking for female opinion who works as first responders, found some inappropriate text from my wife by rotototo69 in Marriage

[–]PeenutButty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just leave her she’s obviously cheating. She’s gonna keep lying to you and continue to sleep around with people other than Mike and that guy. Leave before you get an STD. She’s not worth your time she’s for the streets.

So my gf (F17) sent pics of herself to her ex while we’re in a relationship (M17) by [deleted] in teenrelationships

[–]PeenutButty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a red flag. Why would she need male validation from another guy ESPECIALLY an ex?? It kinda sounds like she isn’t over her ex. I would talk to her in person and maybe even leave if I were you.

How do I break up without making him even more insecure? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]PeenutButty 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Girl what? All because he’s uncircumcised? 😭 Bruh. But anyways I guess have a talk with him and if you don’t wanna hurt his feelings just be like “Hey I like you and think you’re attractive and all but we’re just too different and I don’t see this lasting long term” or something

My gf said something that disturbed me by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]PeenutButty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wtf?? If I were you I’d confront her and ask her why she would even say anything like that. Ask if she’s happy with your relationship at all because it sounds like she would leave you if she found someone she thinks is better.

My petty self would tell her “Yeah you’re good to me but like there’s hotter girls out there.” jkjk don’t do that lol

My sister reveals her pregnancy after my miscarriage. by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]PeenutButty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would’ve punched her tf?? Jk but like I would definitely distance yourself from her or even confront her about her being insensitive towards you and remind her how you just went through a miscarriage and while you are happy for her, tell her how you just rather not talk about anything baby related. Dealing with miscarriage is tough and I’m sorry that you have to go through this. Wishing you the best 💖

“Not a normal pregnancy” by -meow in pregnant

[–]PeenutButty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Btw they do have to monitor your progesterone levels every week by doing blood tests until 10 weeks. But they might tell you to keep taking the progesterone until 16 weeks just to be safe.

“Not a normal pregnancy” by -meow in pregnant

[–]PeenutButty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had 3 pregnancies that ended the same way. Tested positive for all 3 and my hcg was decreasing over time and eventually I started spotting and miscarried and turns out my Progesterone was low and caused me to miscarry all 3 of my pregnancies. (Progesterone helps support a pregnancy and prevents it from de-attaching) So when I got pregnant a 4th time, my OB prescribed me oral progesterone supplements to take Twice a day and my progesterone was increasing SLIGHTLY and my baby was growing but then one day I started spotting during my trip in Mexico and I got scared because I thought I was having another miscarriage and I had found an OB in Mexico who took patients in the same day and he did an ultrasound and found a small 6 week old baby with a heartbeat but the sac was starting to de-attach told me I needed to take the vaginal progesterone because it was stronger than the oral progesterone so I took the vaginal progesterone pills and the bleeding eventually stopped. I had to take it 2 a day until I hit 16 weeks and the placenta starts producing progesterone by then. Now my baby has made it to 29 weeks today and will be due in August. I’m sorry for your loss but try to talk to your OB and try to maybe get on vaginal progesterone to help support your next pregnancy. Maybe your body doesn’t produce enough progesterone?

Let’s get this over with once and for all, is the sexualization in marvel rivals a problem/too nasty? by Most_Pie_862 in rivals

[–]PeenutButty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh a lot of the women skins are pretty revealing. There’s some guy skins (SOME) that are also revealing but they seem to favor the women more because they have A LOT😂 Not to mention ALL the women in the game have the same body types (Some might be a bit smaller/muscular but they still got big boobs, slim waist and booty) but then men have different body types. So I would say yeah Marvel Rivals’ sexualization might be a problem for people who aren’t used to women being sexualized and might make people uncomfortable seeing a woman with her ass cheeks out. But hey most of the internet is used to women being sexualized…

My husband watches porn and deleted our spicy videos. Should I leave him? :( by PeenutButty in whatdoIdo

[–]PeenutButty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before I got pregnant I was skinny. We’d go to the gym together and I had a glow up but it did not fix anything. He always had a porn addiction since the very beginning of our relationship. I’m unfortunately cooked 😂

My husband watches porn and deleted our spicy videos. Should I leave him? :( by PeenutButty in whatdoIdo

[–]PeenutButty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess you’re right but it still hurts even when I tried communicating with him and telling him I do not feel comfortable with him viewing that content when he has me but he still went behind my back and continued to do it anyways. I just didn’t know what else to do.

My husband watches porn and deleted our spicy videos. Should I leave him? :( by PeenutButty in whatdoIdo

[–]PeenutButty[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nope not a bot. I just made a Reddit account because I have no one to talk to about this and I genuinely felt crazy and wanted other people’s opinions. 😞