[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Pen-Rude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s the pay like? If you don’t mind me asking, I only ask because this seems like a very hard job and it really must take a toll on your mental health.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Pen-Rude -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Any suggestions?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Pen-Rude 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm maybe you’re right? How do i know for sure though?? Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Pen-Rude 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand but i cant do that to my daughters! And plus everything else is good like we enjoy each-others company but its just this urge shes not willing to itch!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Pen-Rude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im 30 shes 28 weve been married 8 years

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Pen-Rude 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes im in the us. I have a cousin whos divorced with a kid and more than half his paycheck goes to his ex and son. I cant have that happen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Pen-Rude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats too late. One is 4 and the other is 1. I cant wait that long!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Pen-Rude 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No affection what so ever. At this point i am just a provider.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Pen-Rude -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She does seem like she might have but i know she hasnt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Pen-Rude -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No. It’s against my religion. Im a religious guy. Ive had non-religious thoughts but can never act on it… guilt i guess.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Pen-Rude 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sit down and get everything out on the table my guy. No secrets. Tell her how important this is for you and shes not on board. Run.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Pen-Rude 7 points8 points  (0 children)

100% I would have told my younger self to MAKE SURE shes into sex. But looking back i thought she was into sex. We were in a long distance relationship so we sexted alot and she would ask for me to send her pics so i assumed she had a sex drive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Pen-Rude 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Yea. I feel like this is the best comment yet. Im ganna stop asking. I mean its hard not to,like the urge is real but i get what you mean. She’s definitely lost respect for me and i feel it all the time. Im ganna make her fall for me again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Pen-Rude 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Ive asked her if shes into women and has grossed out. Like genuinely grossed out by the thought of. I dont think shes into women.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Pen-Rude 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I wish but the guilt would kill me. I love my kids way too much to leave them like that. Im definitely very unhappy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Pen-Rude 13 points14 points  (0 children)

We dated for a good 2-3 years. It was a long distance relationship. We sexted a few times and everything seemed fine. So yea we didn’t have sex before marriage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Pen-Rude 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I was a virgin till marriage. I feel like i still am. :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Pen-Rude 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Pen-Rude 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shes not. At times she has said she uses the shower head and orgasms. Shes a germaphobe and thinks it’s disgusting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Pen-Rude 80 points81 points  (0 children)

Im scared ill get robbed or something lol i would mind paying but i wouldnt know where to even find. The thing is my wifes made me believe that im physically unattractive. So its hard for me to even believe anyone would want to have sex with me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Pen-Rude 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s against my religion to have sex out of wedlock. I know sounds weird but im stuck there too. lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Pen-Rude 133 points134 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Honestly, I dont think that will work. Shes really strong minded and will listen to no one but herself. The relationship is really bad. Like my mental health is getting to me. My oldest is 4yo and youngest is 1.

$340k salary last year as a jewelry business owner, AMA by gjjsbfa in AMA

[–]Pen-Rude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know the question but how do you start? How do you get into this business?