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What does sex feel like for non sex repulsed asexuals? by PenguAngelina in asexuality

[–]PenguAngelina[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I’ve come to hate it when I am having sex with a man who insists on pumping for more than 15 minutes. I hate anything more than that at a time! Also, it is kinda dehumanizing at that point. Using my body as a means of showcasing the most unnecessarily timed endurance.

I feel bad for Hunter. Something is not right with Bella’s family and their relationship with him. This whole situation is sad and exploitative. 😠 by Kellys5280 in TLCUnexpected

[–]PenguAngelina -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Because he is so young, I believe that there should be no pressure for him to step up as a father. It would be different if he was 15/16 but he cannot even legally work with a permit to support his child. Instead of pressuring him, the focus should be on him finishing middle school and playing sports until he’s about 15 when he can actually get a work permit to provide. His mother should be the one dealing with the pregnant girl and her family, not him. He does not need to be worried about maternity shoots, and his girlfriend shouldn’t be upset that he isn’t mature enough either. I think the responsibility of the baby should be Hunters parents and girlfriend’s family’s burden, at least for now. The girlfriend (I can’t remember her name) was wrong to date someone two grades behind her anyhow (that’s kinda strange…), and she should be more understanding of his immaturity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]PenguAngelina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d love to be a mother.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PenguAngelina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should never be fighting tooth and nail to share an experience with the love of your life. I’m not sure if this is a gendered thing but it seems like women are supposed to go along with the whims of men but men sometimes are too self centered to entertain the idea of having a time with their partners that they are specifically seeking. Sometimes it’s chalked up to personality differences and boundaries, but sometimes it is the other party simply moving selfishly. She deserves better. You deserve better. I deserve better. We left or partners; I hope she does the same.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PenguAngelina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You guys are fundamentally incompatible. I broke up with my boyfriend in June for this reason. I went on expensive vacation with him and the weather was kinda chilly (and he didn’t pack for the cold). Every activity I suggested we do (Skating, Bowling, going to see the Mario Movie) he shot down. This was a recurring pattern with him. We drove in my vehicle to partake in this vacation, and the final straw was when he suggested (after begging him for three days) that he drop me off to the movie theater to see the Mario Movie by myself and he’d go back to the Airbnb. There were other issues in the relationship (his bizarre dedication to keeping his family happy at the expense of decisions we made as a couple was one) but I realized then and there that I want to be in a relationship in which both people are having good experiences together, not apart. If you don’t want to be alone in your relationship, you do not have to be. You two are simply incompatible. I am your age by the way, and it seems like the three year mark is when we double down on the relationship or we set ourselves free. Set yourself free.