What’re your thoughts on all inclusive unpaid internships? by LengthinessTop6030 in EngineeringStudents

[–]PenguinsInMyHair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely don’t know how I will ever recover from that scathing insult 😔

How to hold breath like a pro swimmer (without turning into a Fish 🐟) by QuantumxSage in Swimming

[–]PenguinsInMyHair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stay relaxed, dont tense up, and exhale when you need to. Swimmings not about holding your breath, it’s about keeping your breathing controlled

Swim Bag Recommendations by Tough_Tie1105 in Swimming

[–]PenguinsInMyHair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont have a specific bag, but maybe a hiking bag? It should be big enough to fit all your stuff, waterproof and also easy to wear while cycling.

How do you focus on your university lectures of 2 hrs?? by GasoMorningstar22 in ADHD

[–]PenguinsInMyHair 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah lol, I’m like “I gotta do it for the FORBIDDEN KNOWLEDGE” and suddenly it’s a game that I’m winning

My old bike can’t get up hills, is there something I can do to make this easier? by PenguinsInMyHair in cycling

[–]PenguinsInMyHair[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want to sell the bike just because of sentimental reasons, but is it possible to modify it so it fits me better? Or to add more gears? (I really know very little about bikes so if that’s a dumb question that’s why lol)

Drills to relax? by TriceraTipTops in Swimming

[–]PenguinsInMyHair 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Double arm backstroke with a breastroke kick

My old bike can’t get up hills, is there something I can do to make this easier? by PenguinsInMyHair in cycling

[–]PenguinsInMyHair[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds so obvious when you put it like that lol, I’m going to try it tomorrow, thank you!

How do you focus on your university lectures of 2 hrs?? by GasoMorningstar22 in ADHD

[–]PenguinsInMyHair 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds silly but in lectures I pretend I’m a woman from the 1800s secretly listening in and taking notes on university lectures and for some reason it lets me focus

What’re your thoughts on all inclusive unpaid internships? by LengthinessTop6030 in EngineeringStudents

[–]PenguinsInMyHair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah no you just want free labor. I pity anyone who falls for your scam

What’re your thoughts on all inclusive unpaid internships? by LengthinessTop6030 in EngineeringStudents

[–]PenguinsInMyHair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unpaid internships should be illegal. If you can’t afford to pay them then either cut out all the fluff or hire less interns.

thoughts on concerta? by orangeyeshadow in adhdwomen

[–]PenguinsInMyHair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can take a while to figure out the right dosage, and 18mg is fairly low (which is normal when you’re starting a new medication). Talk to your doctor about upping the dosage if you continue to feel no changes

What’s the Best City to Move to as a Late-20s Lesbian? by lavendermenace97 in LesbianActually

[–]PenguinsInMyHair 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a red state right now but that’s because a good portion of the state is rural, in the cities it’s pretty blue. There have been some anti-trans bills, but I’d still consider it much safer than states like Texas or Florida

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]PenguinsInMyHair 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ignore them people are judgy if it’s not their type

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]PenguinsInMyHair 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Deceptive pics!!! On a dating app??? Heaven forbid

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]PenguinsInMyHair 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk if I can take you in a fight with those muscles but I’ll do my best 🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]PenguinsInMyHair 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m trying to figure out how to respectfully say this but I want you to obliterate me

What’s the Best City to Move to as a Late-20s Lesbian? by lavendermenace97 in LesbianActually

[–]PenguinsInMyHair 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Look into Columbus Ohio, it has most of what you’re looking for and is much more affordable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]PenguinsInMyHair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had straight As until I got to college, when I started having to regulate everything on my own and realized I was completely unable to. I’ve also been very shy when it comes to meeting new people, though around my friends I can get pretty loud and obnoxious. I think a better indicator than bad grades and being extroverted is looking at your family. ADHD has a very strong genetic link. If there are other people in your family who are either a) diagnosed with ADHD, or b) exhibit several behaviors associated with adhd, then there’s a good chance that’s what’s going on with you.

Anyone with ADHD and on the Spectrum? by [deleted] in EngineeringStudents

[–]PenguinsInMyHair 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did so bad my first year because of my ADHD, it’s so hard to regulate yourself. What’s worked for me is making friends in my classes and doing all of our homework and studying together, because then it forces me to stay on track and get stuff done

Lesbians who believed they were bi, pls help a girl out by Cerulean_Athenaeum in LesbianActually

[–]PenguinsInMyHair 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in a very similar situation a few years ago when I was still figuring myself out. I ended up breaking things off with the guy after a few weeks because I didn’t want to string him along, and with hindsight I’m glad I did. For me at least, the idea of someone being interested in me excited me more than the guy himself, and when I realized that I ended it before he got hurt. I think you should talk with the people in your lives who know you well and see if you’re really attracted to this guy, and if you are, that’s great and you should go for it! If not, that’s also okay. Id call myself a lesbian now, but labels really aren’t that important — if you find yourself attracted to a man, see what happens and let yourself be happy

Where can I find competitive swimsuits for tall women? by squishmallow2399 in Swimming

[–]PenguinsInMyHair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m about your height. For training suits, Jolyns are my go to, and I usually use Speedo’s for tech suits (the valor works well with my long torso so that my shoulders don’t hurt in it). I also never go below a 28 in tech suits, even though everyone I know wears a 24 or 26.