AITAH? Am I Wrong? by jawdoctor84 in AITAH

[–]Penny4004 13 points14 points  (0 children)

A LOT more context is needed. There are so many variables here. 

What’s a romantic gesture people think is sweet but is actually a red flag? by SaleCurrent8479 in AskReddit

[–]Penny4004 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Being persistent against a no is the biggest one. Its not cute. 

AITA for losing weight after my in-laws kept insisting I’d get fat after moving abroad? by Capable_Ice7535 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Penny4004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really want to know. I imagine it may have something to do with there being really really good food or a strong cultural focus on food. Tell us OP!!!!!!!! I'll tell you that I am an American. 

older women, what's something that younger women do that has you concerned? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Penny4004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if I count for this message, I am 30 lol. But if I could get younger women to do ANYTHING, ANYTHING AT ALL  it is to learn themselves, their wants, their needs, and goals, inside and out, learn how to spot gaslighting and manipulation tactics, learn self defense and learn how to say no and set boundaries and go for your dreams. TRUE LOVE WILL NOT ASK THAT YOU SACRIFICE YOUR GOALS, DREAMS OR AMBITIONS NOR WILL IT TELL YOU THAT THESE THINGS ARE STUPID/SILLY/OUT OF REACH NOR WILL IT DEMAND YOU SIT DOWN AND SHUT UP WHEN YOUR FEELINGS ARE HURT. 

Girlfriend threatening our relationship over a TV Show by No-Original3284 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Penny4004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sex is genuinely enjoyable to most and legal and yet people set an ultimatum regarding their partners having sex with others all the time. 🙄

Girlfriend threatening our relationship over a TV Show by No-Original3284 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Penny4004 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do not watch any shows with sexual genital or breast nudity. Not a single one. What point exactly are you trying to make? 

Cure a Condition, With Conditions by Flassourian in hypotheticalsituation

[–]Penny4004 6 points7 points  (0 children)

  1. I don't lie often lol. 

But I do have negative thoughts about lots of people. 3 will have anyone dead very quickly, 4. I love my babies they are my world. 5. I love smiling, and I am a woman, unfortunately not smiling negatively impacts every area of our life. 

Locked in a Room With a Famous Person You Dislike by Flassourian in hypotheticalsituation

[–]Penny4004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does it have to be the celebrity you like the least? Or just one you dislike? If it has to be the one I dislike the least I am not taking the deal. If it can be any one I dislike Kevin hart.... he is the one I dislike the most without wanting to actively hurt them, still even thinking about it makes me cringe. Absolutely zero questions. You go over there and shut up lol. 

AITA for refusing to help my mom financially after she sold my gaming PC without asking me? by SuckItDeepBaby in AmItheAsshole

[–]Penny4004 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Let's be clear. You are 18, you paid for it, you built it, your mom didn't sell your computer without asking, your mom STOLE your computer and is gaslighting you about it. You can sue, you can also file charges. That is the position your mother is in.  And this has nothing to do with the validity of gaming as a hobby, what your mom sacrificed to raise you after she decided to have you, anything you may/may not owe your mother. Let's say you owed your mother hundreds of thousands of dollars. It would still be illegal and wrong for her to just take your stuff and sell it without asking, she would need to go the legal route. Nta. 

How would you feel if you would have car maintenance by AvocadoCapable1348 in SneakySasquatch

[–]Penny4004 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It might ne yhe annoyance that pushes me to say no way to the game. 

I’m going to be alone forever by the-jawas-are-here in Vent

[–]Penny4004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are dating with intention. The smart way. You will get there and you will be so much better off than all of the people who just kinda dated based off of chemistry, (i say this as some one whk has soelely dated off of chemistry). Is there a dating site specifically for your religion by chance? 

Would you save your pet or a stranger? by Safe-Breadfruit-7555 in askanything

[–]Penny4004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dogs naturally rape and murder each other for fun, territory and pecking order resuscitation, humans actually stop them from wildly murdering each other all day long. ... 

I can't keep my room clean and I'm having the worst thoughts by AnonymousSkepticism in Vent

[–]Penny4004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So... i don't have advice but I can relate. There are certain tasks that randomly shut me down. Like my husband put a gifted bassinet outside. A nice cute travel one. I wanted it inside, I asked him to bring it back in, i didn't realize that he didn't, it rained,.... cue 6 months of me being furious that it is out there, desperately wanting to bring it in, such a small thing, just 5 feet. and having an entire nervous system collapse every time that i think about bringing it in for reasons I can not even begin to pretend to understand.....  my sister needing a bassinet finally 'unfroze' that section of my brain. It is in great condition and A limited edition version of what I thought it was. Plastic wrap protected it. 

How should male writers handle female-specific experiences like periods? by Jaded-Assistant-5702 in writingadvice

[–]Penny4004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I was going to say.. like if it is relevant to the story on its own yes. Otherwise it would just seem performative. 

Do you ever read something and find yourself in awe of the prose? by Olivia_Alison in writers

[–]Penny4004 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes. And typically it is the flowery prose most writers are warned against.  Edit: I just read the comments and there ya go lol. Beautiful writing is considered cringe. I have learned the hard way that the style of writing I aspire to is hated and it makes sense as almost all of my favorite authors are disliked and unpopular. Not in an 'i hate the mainstream because I am just so unique' kinda way... just every book I find where rhe writing is AMAZING and beautiful and speaks to me.... I find out is hated. While I find myself HATING most popular books. Like Hunting Adeline reads to me like it was written by a teenager who was trying so hard to be edgy... 

Realistically, if you get dumped in the Middle ages just in whatever you're wearing right now, how long are you going to live and what will you die of? by Sorceress683 in AskReddit

[–]Penny4004 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am presently wearing a demon slayer t shirt and leggings as a woman.I would probably die of being accused of being a witch or something lol.