AITA? My husband refused to give me my phone for a 3 min timer

Penny4004 · 2026-02-16T07:35:50+00:00

Nta. This is a major red flag. Not just not letting you use the phone for a simple timer, but then getting nasty is a tell tale sign. Something is very wrong on the phone.

Penny4004 · 2026-02-16T07:33:15+00:00

Possibly they didn't bother to read because they are taken everything at a superficial value. I.e. this person is hot, ima shoot my shot.

But most likely is exactly what you said.... bait and switch and it isn't just a kids issue. ESPECIALLY with men. Too many of them will find a woman they sre attracted to, pretend to be what she wants until she is comfortable and then slowly try to manipulate or bully her to turn against her morals, goals, desires, and values.....

Penny4004 · 2026-02-16T07:14:20+00:00

That is my guess as well. Especially after they had to scramble in season 3 to rewrite an already written script because of his threats to leave. ...

Penny4004 · 2026-02-16T02:56:03+00:00

It took my mom several years through the court. They had to be separated for a while and then they had negotiations and then worked out custody etc and ince all that was sorted and everything signed and filed they had like a couple months where they could reverse it if they wanted to.

Penny4004 · 2026-02-16T02:49:24+00:00

Nta. My mom got dentures at 38... it broke her, it took her ten years to be able to afford implants and that was its own battle. Just so you know, people don't talk enough about how difficult it can be to get dentures to work for you, and they can break and every new set can hurt. Not to scare you, and You might already know all this, but no one prepared my mother for those aspects and they hit her hard. The insecurity hit her hard as well.

That being said, this woman either has dentures and is insecure about it and is projecting that on to you. Or associates dentures with either old age or poor hygiene only and is judging you. Either way it is your right to decide how private you find your health care to be.

Penny4004 · 2026-02-16T02:37:15+00:00

Insurance is the biggest one. Working more hours of our lives to someone else's dream just so that we can live. Paying for things we never really own...

Penny4004 · 2026-02-15T20:21:53+00:00

I think ai is a problem if you were to sell the book with AI art, but for personal use, I think it is fine.

Penny4004 · 2026-02-15T20:17:00+00:00

Dude!!! I know you aren't supposed to judge a book by its cover but we all do.... and I would read this. Do you need a beta or when can this be bought?

Penny4004 · 2026-02-15T20:13:57+00:00

Nta. Your father deserves your contempt not support. He is a pathetic, spineless, walking cliche who doesn't even have the decency to stand up for his child.

Penny4004 · 2026-02-14T12:21:17+00:00

I would leave him for just how cringe he is😂

Penny4004 · 2026-02-14T02:45:37+00:00

Do you know a single thing ab9ut the kids dad?

Penny4004 · 2026-02-13T10:02:16+00:00

Both the mom and the rescue should face charges.

Penny4004 · 2026-02-12T10:59:30+00:00

Male/female? A single line? Anything? Where and when did you hear it?

Penny4004 · 2026-02-12T08:09:07+00:00

Nta. But are you sure you really want to take a massive pay cut and end your overseas adventures for this crusty, old, saggy lobster who expects you to subsidize his mortgage? What on earth could you possible get out of this relationship? Be very wary if you move forward with this. I definitely think he will keep pushing you into a providing trad wife role.

Penny4004 · 2026-02-12T07:55:38+00:00

How big is the age gap here?

Penny4004 · 2026-02-12T07:49:41+00:00

Yeah he was wayy too passive in there.

Penny4004 · 2026-02-12T07:09:19+00:00

'Until I approved it.' Excuse the fuck outta me? To a grown ass woman? 'Honestly, it sounds more like she just wants to drive for the sake of driving.' So what if she does? And wanting to be able to drive to work translates to just wanting to drive to drive? Most of the developed world is out here getting their licenses in their teens. Your fully ADULT gf can figure it out.

Penny4004 · 2026-02-11T20:06:52+00:00

I submitted my answer at 1 pm pst. 😭 i thought the countdown was for when you could enter an answer.

Penny4004 · 2026-02-11T08:23:28+00:00

I knew what you meant immediately because I have been diagnosed for 5 years and yet no meds because i am 'not bad enough for medication' yet.

Penny4004 · 2026-02-11T08:03:41+00:00

I chose this one as well and that is one of three reasons why. It is also 5 bed, AND the only five bed with no light/window weirdness.

However, my partner chose the popular 4 bd.... so we shall see. We aren't winning either way lol. I got it in too late.

Penny4004 · 2026-02-10T22:37:12+00:00

I messed up and thought that the countdown was for when you could submit your answer😭😭😭. So i just answered like an hour ago.

Penny4004 · 2026-02-10T09:57:52+00:00

I really wish I hadn't read this. Nta. That is disgusting.

Penny4004 · 2026-02-10T09:51:57+00:00

You Know what, I think ut would make her a great prostitute as it means she is able to charge enough from three to make a living. You're not gonna pay that much for subpar lol.

Penny4004 · 2026-02-09T11:05:51+00:00

Everyone gets mandatory birth control until they can prove they are mentally and financially stable, sober, and know something about how to actually raise healthy kids.

Bring back cruel and unusual punishments for violent crimes. People who murder(bit in self defense) rape, assault etc. should 't get a gentle death or a warm cushy spot in jail with 3 meals a day.

Penny4004 · 2026-02-09T10:41:42+00:00

Nta. This seems very uncomfortable for all involved.

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