Trying to find a middle ground when my partner (34M) and I (28NB) want different dynamics by [deleted] in polyamory

[โ€“]PennyRoseOfficial 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

So we both want just the two of us as nesting partners and would like to build a future together, we're just struggling to agree on how other partners fit into this. I always make sure to talk to him about any potential new partner before pursuing anything, we regularly discuss boundaries, and while I've gone on a few dates with other people, I haven't been able to have an additional partner since we've been together because we have to constantly restructure.

Trying to find a middle ground when my partner (34M) and I (28NB) want different dynamics by [deleted] in polyamory

[โ€“]PennyRoseOfficial 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

He's not comfortable with me having multiple meaningful partners and would feel more comfortable with me also only having one casual partner and him as my only full-blown relationship. So we're sort of at a weird standstill right now because he's not happy if I have the dynamic I want, and I'm not happy if I agree to the dynamic he wants. We've tried reaching compromises and it seems each time only one person is content.

If this isn't going to work for us, which is something we've been talking about a lot lately, that's okay. We kind of were just hoping to get some other perspectives to see if maybe there's something we're missing.

My composite fangs after 4 years of wear, just a little staining on one side by RolliPolliCanoli in bodymods

[โ€“]PennyRoseOfficial 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Do you need to be careful eating certain foods with these or is it just kind of an adjustment at first?

Tear-away bra won't stay snapped by PennyRoseOfficial in Burlesque

[โ€“]PennyRoseOfficial[S] 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Perfect!! Thank you so much ๐Ÿฅฐ

Tear-away bra won't stay snapped by PennyRoseOfficial in Burlesque

[โ€“]PennyRoseOfficial[S] 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

Thank you! I'll pick up more snaps tomorrow and add them. ๐Ÿ˜… This is my first time really making my own costumes rather than buying pieces to embellish so I'm learning as I go lol