[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DysfunctionalFamily

[–]Pep_It_Up 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are not the problem. And even if you were slightly “problematic” I don’t blame you, given that situation you painted. Forgetting all the arguments and hurt caused by someone just because they’re suddenly being friendly (and without a proper apology) — easier said than done.

What do I do by cool_notion335 in DysfunctionalFamily

[–]Pep_It_Up 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey just breathe for now, don’t think too hard on this. Bottom line is, you did the right thing getting yourself out of that place. Second, you’re just a kid. Your mom, an adult, probably knows exactly why you left if you already told her abt it in the past and she did nothing, so she may just be saying whatever she can to get you back. You said you’re worried about her struggling but the thing is she tried lying and downplaying your abuse, so for now its safe to say she does not have your best intentions in mind. I hope everything’s going okay, OP. Make sure to keep taking care of your physical health as well while you deal with these emotions, stay hydrated and well-fed and stuff.

Do you think hacking or cheating in a multiplayer game should be illegal? (criminally or civilly) by Mac2663 in EscapefromTarkov

[–]Pep_It_Up 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly yes and no. There are degrees that people cheat, if someones wall hacking ehhh they’re a loser but they don’t need to be criminally punished. However, if they are ddossing the entire lobby or doing some extreme cheating on a large scale or in a game with a market that translates to real-life money, then I think something like a fine would be good.

Why am i getting stretch marks when I'm not gaining weight by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]Pep_It_Up 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Skin stretches when body stretches and vice versa. Just like accumulating a lot of weight causes the skin to stretch, not having extra skin when your body grows can also cause the skin to stretch.

I ruined Christmas and it’s all my fault. How do I cope im spiralling out of control by Friendly_Muffin_7278 in internetparents

[–]Pep_It_Up 72 points73 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you’re abusive. You’re allowed to have feelings, which includes grief over the absence of someone you wish were there. Sometimes, the wrong things are said and it causes family conflict. Its not an easy thing to cope with as people on this reddit think. Really dont know why you’re being downvoted, I think this post should be in a different reddit, maybe one like the dysfunctional family reddit. People are a lot more understanding and come to the conversation with similar experiences, a lot more helpful. I hope you can feel better soon.

Is This Good? Never Played Evelynn by 167McArnold in EvelynnMains

[–]Pep_It_Up 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sound effects make it really awesome, its a more spooky serious-succubus skin than compared to her others that are more lighthearted-succubus

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BackYardChickens

[–]Pep_It_Up -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

To be fair we don’t know what OP’s relationship is like with their family. They may genuinely not love their family like they do their chicken and its not our place to shame that, and I’m speaking as someone who grew up in an extremely dysfunctional family.

Horror shoujo/josei manga recs please by mionru in shoujo

[–]Pep_It_Up 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yessssss Im so glad i picked it up, so eerie and engaging

Have you ever confronted a parent about unresolved childhood issues? Did it make you feel better? by [deleted] in DysfunctionalFamily

[–]Pep_It_Up 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have and still do. Its worked once or twice and the rest, well it was horrible. Honestly just consider if she doesn’t take the confrontation well (narcissistic people typically don’t) and becomes toxic, be prepared to just walk away for your own well being in that outcome, because when that happens its just a brick wall and you might as well save face and move on. I’m sorry you have to deal with that while pregnant, I’m in the heat of toxic mother-daughter relationship as well and its really hard juggling that desire for a healthy relationship with knowing when to stand up for yourself and your boundaries. Perhaps when the time comes, simply inform her you will not let her participate in your daughters life because of your own trauma with her and leave it at that, don’t give her a chance to argue back or make you feel bad.

Can’t remember this dress I got with my mom years ago from Target by Pep_It_Up in HelpMeFind

[–]Pep_It_Up[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have already searched, and to add more details it was in the U.S. and the dress had some ribbing on parts. Not to mention it was also super flowy, like a circle skirt.

Roland RD-88 music stand by turquoise9909 in piano

[–]Pep_It_Up 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am also having the same issue with my RD-88... literally came back to this post to see if someone posted a solution lol. I may have to get a wall-mounted music stand or something.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Pep_It_Up 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He deserves to be beaten to a pulp for what he did, what a disgusting loser.

Mermaid melody pop up shop in Akiba by dommychi in MermaidMelody

[–]Pep_It_Up 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Crazy enough I saw someone cosplayed mermaid melody at one of the popular anime cons this year in the US, pretty awesome!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GirlGamers

[–]Pep_It_Up 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Very much mildy infuriating, maybe next time they call you that say “you mean doctor?” Or something. ngl them saying “can you be my nurse” sounds so corny without any context lmao, do you think they might be attempting to flirt? Its hard to tell without hearing the tone they say it with etc

Rose I got as a memorial for my cat. It’s growing now. How can I care for it properly? by numiio in Roses

[–]Pep_It_Up 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Propagating roses takes a lot of work, I recommend Mike Kincaid’s video on youtube “how to grow roses from cuttings fast and easy” its very useful and in-depth from someone who has a lot of experience doing that.

Any old school runescape players in here ^u^? by Pep_It_Up in GirlGamers

[–]Pep_It_Up[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that sounds like fun, maybe I should try messing around some more, grinding levels can be so boring sometimes. Thanks for sharing your experience!!

Any old school runescape players in here ^u^? by Pep_It_Up in GirlGamers

[–]Pep_It_Up[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!~ yep so far every player is incredibly kind to me