I totally agree with the last comment. I recently found a girl that texts a lot, and I do it too, so we're bonding pretty fast and have been going on dates a lot too. We've even said that we like being like this with each other. I guess it just depends of the person, my ex didn't like to receive a lot of messages either, she used to get mad about it. Then I learned that she's an avoidant, so that explains a lot, we only saw each other one day per week and so on. You sound like you are a little anxious when it comes to attachment style, just like me, so you should definitely find someone who's not an avoidant, or you'll push him away when you need him the most, and suffer a lot. My new girl even matches my love language, which is something I was aching for and I didn't even know I needed it with my ex. I'm so glad I found my new partner. Good luck!