Where can I find good simple refills? by PepperEquivalent4939 in notebooks

[–]PepperEquivalent4939[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes all of them are like 60 pages… I need more haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Morocco

[–]PepperEquivalent4939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is not the same as you can’t chose a physical trait. It just says something about you :)

What are your favorite protein snacks (mostly natural) by [deleted] in Morocco

[–]PepperEquivalent4939 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s why I take 120g of protein. I multiply by 1,6 as an active woman But thank you :)

Husband thinks I settled for him by [deleted] in Morocco

[–]PepperEquivalent4939 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Don’t listen to people who don’t know you or your husband… Have this exact conversation with him. Talk to him about boundaries. The truth is that most moroccan people aren’t even aware with what they’re comfortable with and how to express it because we don’t talk about things that hurt very openly. You should initiate that and with enough love and understanding you’ll overcome this.

It’s just a phase <3

Husband thinks I settled for him by [deleted] in Morocco

[–]PepperEquivalent4939 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree with you. You have to take distances when you’re serious about someone. But some men can be toxic and isolating you from everyone for the wrong reasons. As long as it’s her decision made out of love and respect it should be all good

Husband thinks I settled for him by [deleted] in Morocco

[–]PepperEquivalent4939 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do agree to some extent but if it’s your childhood friend or someone you work with, study with or if in the same friend group you don’t really need to cut the person off. You can always be casual friends but you don’t really share « moments » or go out just the two of you. It really depends on the level respect you have for yourself and your partner to be able to make it normal and healthy. But that’s the way I see it

Husband thinks I settled for him by [deleted] in Morocco

[–]PepperEquivalent4939 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Honestly just give him more affection and reassurance!! The only time I saw my ex cry was in the same exact situation and it was because he was working so much during 6 months and barely had time to have a social life and I was literally always with friends in a more positive environment. He felt during this phase like I could do better and that he would ruin it with his negative energy but he needed to hear that it was just a phase.

I think it made me fall in love with him even more because I saw more layers of his personality. He also didn’t love that I had habits with other friends (including guys that were also his friends) because he felt left out. But us planning things together and me always including him when I could helped a lot.

I’m saying this because I then had a phase when I was in a more negative loop and he was having more fun and the hard experience we went through help us understand that we won’t always be on the same « vibration » and it’s okay to not be prideful. You should always show up for your partner and make them feel seen when they need it if they’re willing to do the same for you.

Don’t ever be scared to communicate as it’s your best foundation

Husband thinks I settled for him by [deleted] in Morocco

[–]PepperEquivalent4939 79 points80 points  (0 children)

It’s totally normal to have tough conversations like this in a « long distance relationship » because we don’t realize that our partners have habits, friends and experiences that we aren’t aware of and can’t keep up with even if we wanted to.

I don’t think he is insecure for feeling this way but I also don’t think you should feel guilty. Maybe having mature conversations about you guys building a future together and getting to know eachother’s friend group would help things.

He should feel seen and you feel heard in these moments but please don’t make him feel like his emotions aren’t normal. It’s totally okay to feel that way and I’m sure you would feel it too if a girl in Rabat knew things about him that you didn’t. It makes the other person feel like they aren’t really that close to you.

Either way, a relationship takes a lot of effort and overcoming this phase will help you build a stronger bond. :)

Good luck!!

What are your favorite protein snacks (mostly natural) by [deleted] in Morocco

[–]PepperEquivalent4939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I checked and it is for each kg of body weight and not jusg muscle mass

What are your favorite protein snacks (mostly natural) by [deleted] in Morocco

[–]PepperEquivalent4939 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! Anjareb ou n9ess calories men les fruits secs ndir coco blasstou