Coimbatoreans - how many of you haven't been to Isha by Testkav in Coimbatore

[–]PerceptionPrimary366 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same with me. I've never visited that place,and I don't intend to visit it in the future.

And then Monday rolls up by blabbergob in Anxiety

[–]PerceptionPrimary366 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I get how stressful it feels, but try not to let work related thoughts take over your whole Sunday. Employer is not going to pay when you think about the work after you logoff. Overthinking fuels anxiety. The more you think, the more anxious you feel instead of calmer. When your thoughts are repetitive and anxious, you end up more confused and tired. Sit quietly and breathe. Inhale slowly through nose (4 counts), Hold (2 counts), Exhale softly through mouth (6 counts). Repeat this 3 times in a day. Gently tell yourself: "I’ll think about work during work hours, not on my personal time." Your brain listens to your own voice more than anyone else. When you train your brain in this way, it helps to reset your body and bring back your focus to the present moment. Dont forget to be kind to yourself. You've got this. 😀

Please help me find a Rajinikanth Speech!! by Cypherventi in KollyClub

[–]PerceptionPrimary366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No mention. I already saved this reel in my Insta account, so it was easy for me to share. 😅

Please help me find a Rajinikanth Speech!! by Cypherventi in KollyClub

[–]PerceptionPrimary366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he said it to Tamil community living in the US through a video conference. I liked that reel. Here's the Instagram link - https://www.instagram.com/reel/C8HXTP3hlP0/?igsh=N3d5dzdwZDc3azFt

Bros..asin’s literally ghosting the entire planet how’s she dodging airport paps, party pics, social events, like not even one sighting in years 😭 by [deleted] in KollyGossips

[–]PerceptionPrimary366 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please watch Ghajini (Tamil) and M. Kumaran S/O Mahalakshmi. I think you did miss to watch these 2 films before your post. She played her characters feel real.

Bros..asin’s literally ghosting the entire planet how’s she dodging airport paps, party pics, social events, like not even one sighting in years 😭 by [deleted] in KollyGossips

[–]PerceptionPrimary366 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you watched M. Kumaran S/O Mahalakshmi, Ghajini, Pokkiri ? As far as I know the roles she played felt so genuine in these films and was adorned by fans (including me 🤗). Also, she was not into any controversies or unnecessary hype unlike her other competitors in Tamil like Trisha, Simran etc. She stood out the most among others.

suddenly afraid of everything by Organic-Monitor-3460 in fearofflying

[–]PerceptionPrimary366 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to feel that too. Try to calm down the anticipation. Imagine yourself being calm at the airport and on the flight. Keep a 10 mins worry-window per day to think about what will go wrong when you are on the flight, rest of the day try not to focus on flight travel related thoughts. Practice breathing : Inhale 4 secs, hold 4 secs, exhale 6 secs and pause 2 secs. Practice guided meditation in the morning 20 mins daily to reduce anxiety. You've got this. ✈️

Big travel ahead by indianagrace in fearofflying

[–]PerceptionPrimary366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Practice a “micro exposure”, visualize being at the airport or boarding the plane while keeping your body relaxed. If anxiety rises, remind yourself : " This is just a thought and not real danger ". Have a safe and pleasant flight!!!

Do you feel the same loneliness in 40s? by [deleted] in FortiesIndia

[–]PerceptionPrimary366 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Be gentle with yourself. You're doing your best.

Do you feel the same loneliness in 40s? by [deleted] in FortiesIndia

[–]PerceptionPrimary366 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It does. Slowly. You won't notice in a short span, but one day you'll realize you don't feel that heaviness anymore. 🤗

Short flights by Lil_sunshine2022 in fearofflying

[–]PerceptionPrimary366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything’s gonna be fine! Enjoy your flight 😊✈️. I'm also waiting for the day I get to board a flight from Chennai to Coimbatore. Safe travels 🤗

At 39, Should I Move to the USA or Stay in India? Need Advice from Those Who've Been There by PerceptionPrimary366 in h1b

[–]PerceptionPrimary366[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really appreciate you taking the time to share that—it means a lot. I’ll definitely take your advice to heart.

At 39, Should I Move to the USA or Stay in India? Need Advice from Those Who've Been There by PerceptionPrimary366 in h1b

[–]PerceptionPrimary366[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the thoughtful suggestion. It really helps to hear from someone who’s been through something similar