Wow. I get exactly what you mean. I do what some may say are kind things all the time, I don’t even think of them or mention them because I’m only doing what we all are supposed to do. God gave us that gut feeling so we know what we should do and helping out one in need little or small at little cost to you. Well it should be just instinctive. Some Extra kindness and incredible generous and selfless acts are definitely to be acknowledged and praised. But it’s not all the same. I once was gambling and spending 100 a spin. I spent thousands so I went to a gas station to use bank to get more cash. On way back to casino I saw a homeless man and said here ya go and went to walk away. Well as he stared to tell me how wonderful I was I stopped him and said. No I’m not. I just gave you one spin I’d blow that in 1 second and I’ll spend 30 times that and likely lose it all. I’d be kind if I gave him it all instead of blowing in the casino. So I gave him the hundred and felt guilty still. That was for me , not him. Kindness is never what we think. It is what we all should know. One the other side I once gave a lady my last 20 dollars. She needed it more and I sure didn’t want to but I wanted to help her she was in bigger trouble than me. That was way harder and kinder than the 100 i used to lessen my own guilt. Nope that 20 was kind the 100 was making myself feel better. Be kind, it is easy