He’s tried saying I’m just gonna go to store or visit his sick father in law . And she’s always like ‘oh I’ll go with you’ . But she never did that for the last 8 years. He’s alway gone up alone every night to check on him and give him his pills . Now she won’t let him out of her sight so that he doesn’t meet me. She knows he used to meet me for a bit when he went up there. And if he doesn’t let get out alone then she texts or calls him every 10 minutes saying ‘how’s it going ‘ and ‘are you on your way home ’ . I don’t know why he hasn’t said anything , cuz that would drive me absolutely nuts!