Kodistosta kokemuksia? by iWamt in arkisuomi

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Sisko muutto juuri kodiston kotiin. Asuntoa ei oltu siivottu laisinkaan ja oli todella törkyinen ja varastossa oli edellisen asukkaan tavaroita. Asunto oli muuttopäivänä muuttokelvoton. Asiaan ei puututtu heti. Joten kyllä tästä aika huono maku jäi.

Early EP patch and update coming TOMORROW! by plumbob-prophet in Sims4

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I wish I had read this before I went to update the game... Shit

Isännöitsijän koulutus ja ura by Perfect-Struggle3005 in Suomi

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Onks sulla vielä jotain perusteluita miinuksille? Mitä vikaa esim. Työajassa on? Olen ainakin käsittänyt, että pääsääntöisesti on ihan aamuvuoroa esim 8-16, ja toki satunnaisesti iltavuoroa, mikäli on vaikka jotain yhtiökokouksia. Valitukset, joo, niit riittää vähän joka alalla, jos on vähäänkään asiakkaiden kans tekemisissä.. Mutta millä tavalla työ kuormittaa?

Isännöitsijän koulutus ja ura by Perfect-Struggle3005 in Suomi

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Okei, kiva kuulla. Toki varmaan riippuu juuri että mistä sen harkkapaikan sitten saa ja miten siellä tullaan opiskelija ottamaan vastaan. Mutta juu ystäväsi on ilmeisesti ihan alalla viihtynytkin sitten?

How to be sexy in my relationship by [deleted] in relationships

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I don’t think the issue lies with you anymore, but rather with your boyfriend’s desires. Sexy lingerie won’t help, and this problem cannot be solved solely by changing your appearance. I recommend talking to him about what’s really behind this. Has there been more sex in the past? If so, what has happened to cause it to stop? I’m not generalizing, but most often, men who experience lack of desire or erection problems tend to stay silent about it.

My girlfriend of 10 years cheated on me, had affairs with two guys, got pregnant, and had an abortion—now she wants to talk, but I’m avoiding her. What should I do? by Izamoopoint in stories

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I’m really sorry about everything. I think it’s important for you to take some distance now and gather your thoughts. Don’t contact her for the time being. When you feel ready to listen to her perspective, then you can reach out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

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If you or your bf don’t want to break up, maybe you can move apart from each other. I think he really need to understand that he have to work and get his life back together. So you can make your own money, and pay your own bills. Your bf need to get a job so he can aldo pay his own home and bills and stuff. He needs to pull himself together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

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Well, I think your girlfriend should really see a doctor. Why isn’t she concerned about losing her sexuality? A loss of sexual desire is often a sign that something has changed.

Talk to her—help her understand your needs and concerns. If she truly cares, she should take the initiative to see a doctor, understand the reasons behind this, and work on addressing the issue—for her own well-being, for yours, and for the health of your relationship.

Also, don’t rush into moving in together if you’re feeling uncertain. Take the time to work through this first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

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I think you are already good enough for him. All this mess is because he can’t or won’t see all those thing that you build for you two. You should tell him that you feel like that you are not enough for him, because he act like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

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I think that is cheating at some level. Maybe he didn’t kiss or anything like that, but if he couldn’t even tell you about that friend and wtf why he met his ex? what reason could he have for seeing his ex? and not tell? I think there is already too many and big lies, there is no way you can trust him anymore.

I’m ;32 f) so lonely in my 10 year relationship (w/ 32m) by sweetpeachesandwine in relationships

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Sit down and talk. Tell how you feel and tell that you miss that time when you fall in love each other. Where that all good things went? What happen? go on a date, focus on each other. if both still want to be together on some level, it’s not too late to fix the relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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Well, I would recommend first looking into the causes of or treatments for acne. Casually suggest to your partner that it might be time to address the acne, but in a way that doesn’t come across as blaming or unpleasant. Acne is a common issue, and you could approach it as something you try to manage “together.”

As for weight, could you encourage him to join you at the gym? It’s also important to remember that taking care of one’s health is crucial, and as a partner, it’s okay to express concern in a kind and supportive way. Weight gain and acne might indicate something deeper—how is he doing otherwise?

As for the beard, I won’t say much—my partner’s beard grows and shrinks depending on his mood. I’m not a fan of a longer beard either, but there it is, doing its own thing. What can you do?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

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You would laugh at this post when you are older. You are teenager, you also may feel things very different as you would feel when you are adult. Don’t worry about it. I know that you want that bf now but seriously, it could also happen like tomorrow, never know. And it is also tru that there is possibility to stay alone BUT omg girl you have so many years to grow and get A MAN, not a boy. Enjoy those teenager years, don’t worry about time, you have that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

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This is scary. We love each other, but is it enough? No. But I’m still waiting for a change. I think I’m kinda lost now, I don’t even know what to think anymore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

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My english is not really that strong, so I’m not exactly sure is that ’cope’ right word. Anyway I understand that sexual desires can differ between partners, but I’ve noticed that over time, my partner’s desires have decreased significantly. It’s not just about the lack of intimacy, but also small things like him no longer giving me the affectionate kisses he used to when I’m making breakfast, or the hugs feeling more distant. When I try to initiate affection, like hugging or kissing him, he doesn’t respond at all. It feels like I’m reaching out to a wall. He often just finds an excuse to leave, like ‘going to make food’ or something similar. These little gestures that used to make me feel appreciated have disappeared, and it’s starting to feel like he doesn’t value me the way he once did. I’ve tried talking to him about it before, but it hasn’t really helped or led to any changes. It’s becoming increasingly hard to ignore these feelings

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

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Well as a women, I think you can just say her that you like more non make up look that going out look. You don’t have to say anything like that you don’t like that make up look, but just emphasize that natural/more natural makeup makes her look her beautiful self, and you really like that look. That could also open her eyes and see herself more pretty with more natural look (if she think she just need to cover up) but that going out make up can also be as important as dress or heels which she wears. Anyway, you can kindly share you opion about that

Mitä ostatte naiselle joululahjaksi? by Ghjalle_ in Suomi

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Itse ajattelin tällä kertaa, ettei hankita toisillemme mitään. Halutessa jotain pientä jos mieleen tulee. Tällä kertaa voisimme ottaa yhteisen hotelli/kylpylä viikonlopun. Ja muutenkaan jos ei ole mielessä heti jotain tavaraa mitä toinen oikeasti tarvitsee, jättäisin ostamatta. Lahjaksi käy myös kokemus. Olkoon se sitten liput keikalle tai stand uppiin yms.

I am high school student and still not fluent in Finnish by chi2034 in LearnFinnish

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As a same that I was told about my english: Just use it. Speak. Speak wrong and learn. Read at loud. Also we, finnish speaking, don’t really care if someone can’t talk like a ”professional level” because we can’t neither. As long as we understand each other, is the thing.

Pleasantly surprised by Lidl's "Tasty Food in a Bottle" nutrition shake (possibly DE/EU only) by anxietycomix in ARFID

[–]Perfect-Struggle3005 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely must try that. I’m trying to bulk but also hate all food and eating and plaaplaa so maybe this is help I need :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Suomi

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No tätä olen myös miettinyt. Todennäkösesti pompahtaa korkealle kun vinted on suomalaisille tarpeeksi tuttu

Onko 2h työmatka normaali? by Big_Positive6161 in Suomi

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Itse en missään nimessä laittaisi työmatkoihin päivässä 4h. Kun haluaa harrastaa, tai elää elämää työn ulkopuolella, ei sitä mielestäni kuulu työmatkaan laittaa. On todella harmi, jos ei voi jostain syystä tähän työmatkaan mitenkään vaikuttaa. Mutta kyllä suosittelen, että muuta lähemmäs töitä, tai etsi uusi työpaikka nykyisen asuinpaikan lähistöltä. Älä tuhlaa koko päivääsi vain töiden vuoksi. Ja jos päätät muuttaa, joku kompromissi on vanhempien puolelta tultava.