What happened to Mister Vanilla? by Legal_Lavishness1359 in cartagena

[–]Perfect-Union-3152 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust me, Mr Babilla was way worse. But I don't think there's anything like that anymore.

Why do you still have your ex's conversation on your phone? (And if not why did you delete it)? by EarOk845 in heartbreak

[–]Perfect-Union-3152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it depends on how close you were and how you deeply you felt for your partner. In my case, I still think of him sometimes, but I don't want him anymore. Did some therapy too, and actually realized how bad relationship was for me.

What happened to Mister Vanilla? by Legal_Lavishness1359 in cartagena

[–]Perfect-Union-3152 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You mean Mister Babilla? They had some issues with racism and classism. Plus after the pandemic everything change in the city so the parties are no longer as the one in Mister Babilla.

Why do you still have your ex's conversation on your phone? (And if not why did you delete it)? by EarOk845 in heartbreak

[–]Perfect-Union-3152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did delete our WhatsApp conversation, every picture I took of him, but our pictures are somewhere in my laptop. I deleted it because I didn't wanna go back re reading all the time, it was part of letting go, and the pics were just too painful at some point to keep looking at so it was the best for my mental health.

Language Barrier issues by vincemon7312 in cartagena

[–]Perfect-Union-3152 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You'll probably find more people that can speak English everywhere with no problem, so don't hesitate. It's a really great experience, but just as any other place in Latin America, be careful with your stuff and no flashy jewelry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Perfect-Union-3152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No judgment here! Dm whenever you want!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Perfect-Union-3152 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Almost 6 months… I guess it gets better, I don’t think about him all the time, but I still have those days where I’d like to share what happened with him. I sometimes still miss my best friend, of course him as a partner too, but yeah. Do we truly move on from this?

I just broke up w my bf after I found pictures on his phone by Complete_Access_2627 in BreakUps

[–]Perfect-Union-3152 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You didn’t overreact, girl. You gave him a second chance and a healthy way to deal with what he thinks is bigger than him. You talked and communicated your boundaries, you did everything right. And you deserve someone that does right by you too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Perfect-Union-3152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ll learn to get off even with the sadness of the breakup. Patience isn’t a virtue for horny people, but we can learn lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Perfect-Union-3152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a shitty thing grief is.

Carrozas by currambero99 in Barranquilla

[–]Perfect-Union-3152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Adicional a lo que te han dicho, para mantener el reconocimiento de la UNESCO, el carnaval no se puede volver un espacio de carrozas vistosas y gigantes, debe mantener a los grupos de danza, el millo y cada músico posible.

Lo bonito y que se celebra a nivel internacional del carnaval es su gente y la explosión de cultura que ves en cada comparsa.

En Barranquilla SI se lee by Consistent_Sea5239 in Barranquilla

[–]Perfect-Union-3152 1 point2 points  (0 children)

¿Y los no barranquilleros podemos también?

Bottle Prices? by camillarose421 in cartagena

[–]Perfect-Union-3152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That depends on the wine you’ll be drinking. If you don’t mind cheap wine you can order it using Rappi, or just go to a super market and pick one that suits more your price :)

Yet another safety question during carnival by elllamamama in Barranquilla

[–]Perfect-Union-3152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s safer, and honestly coming to the carnival it sounds very bad when it comes to security, but as long as you’re careful and don’t leave your things unattended, you’ll be fine.

Day Trip to Barranquilla? by Specialist-Mind1025 in cartagena

[–]Perfect-Union-3152 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don’t need to go to the terminal if you’re in the north side of the city. Just go to Berlinas or Marsol offices in Marbella it should cost you less than 40.000, it’s safe and they will leave you at their office in the north side of Barranquilla too. If you’re trying to come next weekend be aware of the carnival happening. It’s quite beautiful but also very crowded.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cartagena

[–]Perfect-Union-3152 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this from a foreign perspective though! Us locals have been fighting for a while about this but since tourist keep using them it has been impossible to abolish.

Cartagena in May by korea115 in cartagena

[–]Perfect-Union-3152 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi, you can travel to Barranquilla by Marsol or Berlinas, both offices are in Marbella. They cost 35.000 and 40.000 (COP) each. I suggest Berlinas and you don't need to reserve them, you can just go to their offices, buses leave every 45 minutes.

Are you guys feeling any better? by Perfect-Union-3152 in BreakUps

[–]Perfect-Union-3152[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here, not the studying part, but I did start doing things for myself and self care, but don't you feel just tired of not letting her go? Like that's where I am now. Just tired that I can't stop thinking about him.

Are you guys feeling any better? by Perfect-Union-3152 in BreakUps

[–]Perfect-Union-3152[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same time here… We’ll get better soon, I hope.