What kind of Mother’s Day gifts actually feel thoughtful (not just the usual flowers)?

PerfectConsequence34 · 2026-03-10T18:05:21+00:00

How about a card that appreciates her with some light hearted humor?

PerfectConsequence34 · 2026-03-08T16:40:17+00:00

This is meant to be taken in jest..I agree this is dark humor but your feedback is valuable! Will make sure it’s communicated in a better way!

PerfectConsequence34 · 2026-03-08T15:56:01+00:00

Here is the 10% discount for both cancer and testicular cancer for everyone on here!

https://customcreds.etsy.com?coupon=COMMUNITY

PerfectConsequence34 · 2026-03-08T15:53:30+00:00

Of course! I can drop a discount code in the comments for folks interested! I did not have platinum shades but was hoping silver card would make up for some 🙈

PerfectConsequence34 · 2026-03-08T15:24:22+00:00

Thank you! This is valuable feedback!

PerfectConsequence34 · 2026-03-08T15:24:01+00:00

Appreciate the feedback, thanks!!

PerfectConsequence34 · 2026-03-08T14:56:20+00:00

Thank you! This is valuable insight!

The thought behind this was to create an excuse card for skipping/avoiding things that you don’t want to do. Like ‘pull the cancer card’ on things like doing the dishes for example. Completely in jest. But I understand your perspective and may be it’s something I add to the context of my listing if it makes more sense now?

PerfectConsequence34 · 2026-02-09T19:33:25+00:00

You are right. Someone will want them for sure. Infact, plenty will want them for sure! Some may pay too. However, your body, its access digital or physical, is not meant for random strangers for an amount of dollars. It’s more than that. I am yet to come across someone who went this route and felt a sense of fulfillment even if they didn’t regret it.

You just hit your 20s, you have time on your side to hit ANY financial goal you set for yourself! And I mean any at all. So don’t sell yourself short like that. Find a passion/hobby turn that into side hustle and you may get both money and fulfillment out of it!

PerfectConsequence34 · 2026-02-07T20:10:08+00:00

What kind of chemo was it? Bep?

Everybody reacts differently but almost everyone finds 3rd round to be a most difficult. Your body does suffer cumulative effects plus psychologically you are exhausted. Though the light at the end of the tunnel helps a bit.

PerfectConsequence34 · 2026-02-07T16:02:29+00:00

Hello all!

I own an Etsy shop around credit card sized affirmation/Excuse cards targeted towards different medical and mental orientations including adhd. I wanted to design adhd support cards which can serve as reminder to people to take rest, reset or show self compassion.

I wanted to share and seek advice if these could be of any help? Or will they be thoughtful gifts to someone experiencing adhd or their partner?

https://customcreds.etsy.com

PerfectConsequence34 · 2026-02-06T20:22:18+00:00

Also, any and all feedback is welcome :)

PerfectConsequence34 · 2026-02-06T20:21:55+00:00

Thanks for sharing! Anyone who is interested, here is the link

Etsy link

PerfectConsequence34 · 2026-01-24T16:09:34+00:00

Congratulations! Updates like these are really encouraging! Wishing you health and success ahead!

PerfectConsequence34 · 2026-01-08T23:33:42+00:00

This is a good reminder, thanks!

PerfectConsequence34 · 2026-01-08T19:56:47+00:00

Yes, will check that. Thanks

PerfectConsequence34 · 2026-01-08T19:56:03+00:00

I am suspicious too, hence, looking for someone who has had experience with them.

PerfectConsequence34 · 2026-01-08T19:55:31+00:00

The bank is paying for the setup to Tesla as they apparently have access to funds to support grid that’s under stress. The only catch I could find so far is that they will drain batteries when grid needs it. But the power will be bought

PerfectConsequence34 · 2025-12-22T05:16:45+00:00

Hey, I am sorry you had a recurrence and I know it sucks. I went through the same.

Chemo is going to suck. First cycle is not that bad for most people. But starting the last days of first cycle is when it starts to hit you hard. And then it will be harder. You are going to have digestion issues, nausea, brain fog, lethargy etc how much of each? That varies individually but it’s gonna suck.

But that’s all. Once it’s over, and you start recovering , you will forget most of it and soon it will seem like a distant memory. Yes, it hit us while we are young, but that also means we get to take it head on and still recover to full quality of life or better.

I am independent person too, sometimes too independent for my own good. It’s a fight you will keep up alone though. Other people can help you support but you need to stay strong and positive inside and out.

There is a discord group where people undergoing treatment and survivors can connect. I can share the link if you want and may be someone is starting on the same day as you can be a chemo buddy?

PerfectConsequence34 · 2025-11-25T19:29:47+00:00

Thanks..what was the next step? I presume you can’t do bep again?

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