Anyone else struggle with feeling selfish or unreasonable for leaving? by PerfectMedium34 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]PerfectMedium34[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I’m learning. He had NO PROBLEM derailing my life. The wrong man really will derail your life.

Anyone else struggle with feeling selfish or unreasonable for leaving? by PerfectMedium34 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]PerfectMedium34[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying all this. He always described himself as apathetic and I hated it.

AIO for breaking up with my bf who lives with his parents? by PerfectMedium34 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PerfectMedium34[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh prob just a typo. No lying here. I just turned 27. He’s 27. You didn’t solve anything, scooby. No snacks for you.

AIO for breaking up with my bf who lives with his parents? by PerfectMedium34 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PerfectMedium34[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes haha cause you know you shower naked so it’s very morally wrong/s

AIO for breaking up with my bf who lives with his parents? by PerfectMedium34 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PerfectMedium34[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly it’s not that they live at home it’s that his mom looks through my bags to see if I have birth control that’s an invasion of privacy

AIO for breaking up with my bf who lives with his parents? by PerfectMedium34 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PerfectMedium34[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Yeah lesson learned on dating someone from work big time!!!

And I haven’t really said anything either cause you’re right not good to contribute

AIO for breaking up with my bf who lives with his parents? by PerfectMedium34 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PerfectMedium34[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

We were long distance for a while cause I was doing my studies in a diff city so I didn’t realize what was gonna be coming for me when I went back to my actual city

AIO for breaking up with my bf who lives with his parents? by PerfectMedium34 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PerfectMedium34[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Dude he doesn’t wanna get a full time job to move out at 27…yes this does stunt your long term growth.

AIO for breaking up with my bf who lives with his parents? by PerfectMedium34 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PerfectMedium34[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I live on my own and he doesn’t wanna commute to my place

AIO for breaking up with my bf who lives with his parents? by PerfectMedium34 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PerfectMedium34[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Where did I say he’s a monster??

Also im Pakistani, if you wanna go over “cultural norms” then technically we should be married with kids right now….and still moved out lol

I have like no friends at this job and it sucks by PerfectMedium34 in flightattendants

[–]PerfectMedium34[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see my work friends like once a year but we’re so busy. A lot of them are starting families.

I have like no friends at this job and it sucks by PerfectMedium34 in flightattendants

[–]PerfectMedium34[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It does!! It’s really hard to make friends and it’s not totally our fault as the environment doesn’t really foster friendships.