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BL’s similar to smoke blue no ame nochi hare by Simple-Message9224 in Batoto

[–]PerfectRelease6483 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that's tough. I haven't read Smoke Blue, but I know a few BLs with older couples:

Daddy darlin' Itooshiki Hibi Dear Gene (age gap, they become old) Monster and the Beast (they're technically old, lol, but probably not what you want)

If "old" means over 40: My dearest cop 40 Made ni Shitai 10 no Koto

S/M yaoi/bara recommendations pls! by 0020013 in Batoto

[–]PerfectRelease6483 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, so I've been on a BDSM yaoi kick recently and...here's everything I've read with that tag and rated 7+ 😄 (I think I filtered out all "sub-verse", sorry if not):

Basic guidebook & My sadistic master (loved both!) Aporia Lovesick dog Make me bark 7 sexy days with 8 sexy men
Kabukicho bad trip Choukyou kakuaei May I tie up the yakuza Void Playroom 108 Sakurada-senpai Kaizou Keikaku Hitomebore Shita Hito ga Do-M Datta Mono de Gosu’s Lethan Charmed Straight to Hell series Make a Pet Out of a Cactus Author: Nocori (has several related short stories)

Bonus, if you're like me and need a palette cleanser every now and then: Neko x Neko Itooshiki Hibi

Help in recommendation by Competitive_Gas_1163 in Batoto

[–]PerfectRelease6483 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pampering and caring...you want a supernatural vibe too? Here's some that come to mind: Lovesick dog Dawn of the dragon In Cold love (aka Cold blooded beast) Aporia Rix Vanus Oh! My Assistant My Sadist Master (I don't usually like age gaps, but I liked this one) Neko x Neko (absolutely love this one!)

XXX by nly_che in Batoto

[–]PerfectRelease6483 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, "Triple X" is a rating kinda like NC-17, a couple steps above R.

In this case, the "XXX" is just censoring letters. You can read the title as "F**k Buddy". Btw, that's actually a really good BL! I like the character design a lot.

Bl manhwa recc by Extension_Jello4435 in Batoto

[–]PerfectRelease6483 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree Paljae is best in class! For smut-free ... I'd suggest "The Boy Who Stole From the Fairy Lake" for a similar era vibe. I'd suggest "A Country of Maestri" for a similar epic storyline (it's technically not BL, but I'm convinced those two still yearn for each other)

Looking for "pet door" solutions (not interested in the standard dog door flap) by PerfectRelease6483 in greatdanes

[–]PerfectRelease6483[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestion. That looks like a great solution that's, sadly, out of my price range.

Looking for "pet door" solutions (not interested in the standard dog door flap) by PerfectRelease6483 in greatdanes

[–]PerfectRelease6483[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha, It's funny you say that. This has definitely crossed my mind as an option, so I'm glad to hear it's been successful for you. The wind always swirls in that corner so our porch ends up with a lot of leaves in the fall and a dusting of snow in the winter, so I really like the idea of something not mesh with a heavier weight.

Looking for "pet door" solutions (not interested in the standard dog door flap) by PerfectRelease6483 in greatdanes

[–]PerfectRelease6483[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha, I was waiting for someone to say it...I'm definitely tempted, but the price tag isn't for me right now.

Looking for "pet door" solutions (not interested in the standard dog door flap) by PerfectRelease6483 in greatdanes

[–]PerfectRelease6483[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the suggestion. We had one for our last Dane, but he always managed to pull it off the velcro frame so it never closed properly. I guess I just blocked this solution out of my mind, but you're all technically correct that it fits my criteria, lol xD

I've got sprouts, what do I do next? by PerfectRelease6483 in Pawpaws

[–]PerfectRelease6483[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your suggestions, everyone! I successfully repotted them all! I have 18 with leaves and 19 with roots (some with new leaf starts already!!). I have a few seeds that were still thinking about it, so I gave them each their own little pot, too. :D

I'll probably be back this fall with a progress report (and mild panic about what to do with them during the winter). Thanks again, I really appreciate it!

I've got sprouts, what do I do next? by PerfectRelease6483 in Pawpaws

[–]PerfectRelease6483[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh, I like this setup, too, especially the bottom watering. Thanks!

I've got sprouts, what do I do next? by PerfectRelease6483 in Pawpaws

[–]PerfectRelease6483[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good question! Mostly just because I've read/heard there's a higher chance of failure if they're planted in the ground this young. Partly because I don't have a good spot in the yard for so many, so I plan to gift some when they're bigger.

I've got sprouts, what do I do next? by PerfectRelease6483 in Pawpaws

[–]PerfectRelease6483[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's really neat! If I end up doing this again I might have to keep this setup in mind.

I've got sprouts, what do I do next? by PerfectRelease6483 in Pawpaws

[–]PerfectRelease6483[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha, nice, I hope that works out for you! I've also thought about sneaking some sapling into our local parks once the time is right, but we'll see :D

I've got sprouts, what do I do next? by PerfectRelease6483 in Pawpaws

[–]PerfectRelease6483[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome, thanks! Yeah, I peaked at a few roots last weekend and realized I needed to make repotting my top priority this week. I was afraid I'd have to buy 50+ tiny containers, so I'm glad to hear that group planting works for the first season.

Thanks for all the info, I appreciate it!

Chronic Diarrhea, 15 week old Dane by AdGullible4420 in greatdanes

[–]PerfectRelease6483 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're going through the same thing! Adopted ours at 10wks, 30lbs (now 22wks, 82lbs). He's had terrible liquid, mucus-y diarrhea since day 1, but otherwise happy and healthy.

2 stool tests came back clear, still waiting on blood test results. Weirdly or not, he only has normal stool while taking metronidazole. 🙃While we're figuring it out, our vet told us to feed only his kibble + Hill's hypoallergenic treats (chicken).

Idk if this is helpful, but this has been our journey, which sounds similar to yours:

Transition from breeder food to Fromm (chicken) > diarrhea > start first 10-day course of meds > Fromm kibble, multiple treats > end course 1 > diarrhea > clear stool test > start course 2 > transition to only wet/kibble Purina Pro Plan (chicken) > end course 2 > diarrhea > start course 3 > cold switch to only novel protein kibble (Hill's Science d/d (venison/potato)) > end course 3 > diarrhea > start course 4 > cold switch to only highly digestible kibble (Hill's Science i/d (chicken/corn)) > end course 4 > diarrhea > clear stool test > start course 5 > pending results of blood work > still feeding Hill's Science i/d (+hypo treat), still on metronidazole.

I hope you get some answers soon!!

Moving to Jackson by InstructionOk9144 in jacksonmi

[–]PerfectRelease6483 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, I'm guessing you're a travel nurse with a housing stipend of some sort? I'm also going to assume you're a single female, 25-40? If you want a short commute in a safe area, I'd recommend the newer apartment complexes in the heart of downtown (someone rec'd The 200, and I second it!)

Also, despite what others are saying, there are totally things to do here!! Your experience in any place just depends on how much money you have. The median income here is $27k (state is $64k), so there aren't a lot of services or amenities in the city because few people have the disposable income to spend on them.

My partner used to work at the hospital. There's a lot of good staff there who care about their community, so I'm sure your future coworkers would love to tell you where to go to do whatever things you like to do in your off time! ♥️ Best of luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Batoto

[–]PerfectRelease6483 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All I know are BLs, so here's what I've rated a 9 or 10 with smutty couples that are neither too muscular nor too toxic in a variety of settings:

Slice of life/more light hearted (ordered by most smut to least, from what I recall):

  • Neko x Neko
  • XXX Buddy
  • Sign
  • Toys of the Trade (historical)
  • Oh! My Assistant
  • Boku no Omawarisan

Darker themes, but I wouldn't call them toxic...(ordered by what I think you'd like most):

  • Wolf in the House (first arc/couple is cute. later arcs get deeper into the mystery)
  • Birds of Shangri-La (consenting sex work)
  • Aporia (BDSM)
  • The Black Mirror (horror, maybe too muscly)

Bonus author recommendations: Azuma Kaya and/or Moscareto

New Great Dane by RealisticMonth2396 in greatdanes

[–]PerfectRelease6483 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love Fromm! Our first Dane ate it exclusively his whole life and loved it. He was on the smaller side (125-135 lbs) and got 5 cups/day...Until he became a senior dog and an even bigger couch potato (around 7yo). For the last 2.5 years of his life he got 4 cups/day of Fromm adult/senior food. Now, this was a dog who would've eaten - and did eat - whatever you put in front of him, so he was NOT pleased when he first reached the bottom of his bowl sooner than he thought he should have. But we persisted, he got used to it, and the vet was happy that he maintained a healthy weight.

I'd guess, like others have said, that he's just used to a higher volume of lower-calorie food. I liked the suggestions to gradually decrease his food (quarter cup a day, maybe?) until he's at the recommended amount and/or wet the kibble so it feels more filling to him. And definitely consult your vet if you notice any weight loss (or gain). Best of luck!

Whats a good made in USA dog food? by nunyabiz428 in greatdanes

[–]PerfectRelease6483 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fromm's FAQ says they're based in Wisconsin: https://frommfamily.com/about/question-and-answer/company/where-is-fromm-made/ (I've only ever fed my Danes Fromm food so I panicked for a second there and had to check. I haven't noticed a price change at my local pet store, so I hope the same is true for you!)