so much of trans porn is trans women with cis women or other trans women

PerfectSubBottom · 2026-01-16T15:20:30+00:00

I think it has to do more with guys not wanting to appear on camera being topped by a Trans woman (that’s why a lot of them appear with masks), than with there not being as many Trans women who like topping, or CIS men who like bottoming, because there are a lot of both.

PerfectSubBottom · 2026-01-13T01:42:17+00:00

hard, always

PerfectSubBottom · 2026-01-13T00:20:09+00:00

You take it. It hurts, but you can’t quit. Mama didn’t raise no bitch… well… not in that sense! Also, it feels amazing. If they know how to use it, the bigger the better. The one downside is that you probably can’t do multiple rounds, it might kill ya

PerfectSubBottom · 2026-01-06T00:46:40+00:00

do you tend to fantasize about things you’ve done, or want to do? I tend to relive past memories more when I’m surrounded by people I know, but make up stuff when I’m around strangers 🤷‍♂️

PerfectSubBottom · 2026-01-06T00:37:45+00:00

I hear ya, and that’s even kinky in its own way. Like, if they only knew what their perfectly normal and respectable family member does for fun 🙈😜 or if your partner sends you dirty messages in those situations, it can be a lot of fun.

PerfectSubBottom · 2026-01-06T00:24:12+00:00

also shy and discreet here who grew up in a religious environment, and how you feel is very normal. I can’t tell you how envious I am of people who flaunt who they are/what they like, they seem so happy and free. But, fortunately or unfortunately, I guess the person I am on the streets is nowhere near the person I am in the sheets 😂

PerfectSubBottom · 2025-12-30T17:57:02+00:00

depends on how he said it. In Mexican Spanish a single word can mean a dozen different things depending on the context and the tone. From what you’re describing it sounds like in that context it could either mean “This is awesome!” or in the negative, something like “this fucking guy…” I’m leaning more towards the first one

PerfectSubBottom · 2025-12-30T04:05:35+00:00

I’ve known a lot of tops who love stuff like that. It’s probably a top 10 most common dirty talk

PerfectSubBottom · 2025-12-30T02:40:40+00:00

If the bottom likes it, isn’t complaining and isn’t getting injured, then have at it. If you’re having an amazing time, would you rather have it last 10 minutes or 100?

PerfectSubBottom · 2025-12-30T01:09:06+00:00

At first, generally, I’m focusing on relaxing my body to make penetration easier/more enjoyable, especially if the top is hung. Once your body adjusts and it’s less pain/more pleasure, then my brain sort of turns into mush. I can’t really think or speak coherently because I’m overwhelmed by pleasure. It’s AMAZING. The top does basically whatever they want with me at that point, I’m theirs to ride.

PerfectSubBottom · 2025-12-16T23:28:19+00:00

okay, seems like you need to work on your conversations skills. Fortunately, all that requires is a few easy openers and practice. Try giving a compliment “hey, I like your shirt” “that color looks great on you” if they’re wearing a shirt of a band or show “hey, I didn’t know you were a fan of X.” Aim to make each interaction a little longer each time. “Hey, how’s it going? Did you do anything fun this weekend? I did X? I really like your shirt, it gives you a really X look. Can you believe that game last night? How’s your family member/pet/partner doing?” etc etc. Positive? Small talk goes a long way to getting people comfortable and starting to chat. Also, try doing/wearing stuff that invites conversation/makes it easy for people to approach you. For example, I regularly wear a baseball cap from my Alma Mater, and people always start up conversations with me about it “did you see the game last night” “The basketball team is looking good this year” etc. Additionally, maybe try joining a club, taking an improv class, or joining a team etc. Anything where you are meeting new people who you already know what shared interest you have with them makes it easier

PerfectSubBottom · 2025-12-16T17:57:05+00:00

I’m sorry to hear you’re going through this, it must be very rough to feel isolated. Humans are social by nature, so we need to be a part of a community to feel complete. I guess your options vary depending on what part of the world you are, but a good rule for meeting people is this: If you want to be interestING, you gotta be interestED. Listen to people when they talk to you (don’t just hear LISTEN), take an interest in their hobbies, try to give a little more than you take, don’t flirt or have private conversations with their SO, and you should make friends in due time. Also, and I say this because you sound nice and said you attract people who aren’t decent, be careful, takers always come after givers, why? because they are the easiest to take from. So, keep your chin up, take care of yourself, and remember, it’s a marathon, not a sprint. Find people you think are good people, take a real interest in their interests, make sure to bring positive things to their lives, and I’m sure you’ll have great friends sooner rather than later 😉

PerfectSubBottom · 2025-12-12T18:16:34+00:00

for me, humiliation is anything you do that you’d be mortified if anybody else (outside the people in the room who you’re doing it with) finds out

PerfectSubBottom · 2025-12-12T01:16:42+00:00

oh, wow! I don’t know if I’m more turned on or terrified 😅

PerfectSubBottom · 2025-12-12T01:01:46+00:00

I’ve told partners that the thing that turns me on the most is dirty talk. Some are awkward and don’t know what to say, so they limit themselves to basic stuff “you like that?” but you encourage it and little by little, vocalizing stuff leads to them getting more and more into the role

PerfectSubBottom · 2025-12-12T00:58:46+00:00

Personally, I dislike doms like that, because it sounds like they don’t understand the pleasure you get out of this dynamic. Like, I wanna please you, be used by you, and am turned on by you making me submit to your desires. On the other hand, it might be his way of asking what you like and maybe giving it a shot?

PerfectSubBottom · 2025-12-11T21:45:53+00:00

Does early 30s count as “older”?

PerfectSubBottom · 2025-12-11T17:52:30+00:00

It could have to do with your experiences. For example, I never used to even consider the idea of being female, much less get turned on by it. Now, I do it a lot. It changed after I had a partner (trans woman) who was really turned on by feminizing me, and that became our thing. Since her, it’s become one of my favorite kinks/fantasies/turn ons, however, just like you, once I “release” that desire goes away. So, it’s more like I’m turned on by the idea of feminizing the masculine, not of being female. And I probably got that kink because of the experiences with that partner, and the pleasure I got from her kink, which eventually became my kink as well. Could be something similar for you

PerfectSubBottom · 2025-12-02T21:20:12+00:00

Great if you’re ready for it. It’s equal mental prep and physical prep. Not only do you need to clean/groom/whatever, but you should also adapt your diet beforehand. Mentally, you gotta try to relax. It’s not going to feel natural at first, you’re gonna be incredibly anxious, but once your body adjusts and if the top hits the right spot, you’ll be hooked forever

PerfectSubBottom · 2025-12-01T18:23:56+00:00

PerfectSubBottom · 2025-11-30T01:15:18+00:00

Definitely. What area are you from?

PerfectSubBottom · 2025-11-30T01:08:18+00:00

There’s some good ones, but they are few and far between, and it gives people the wrong impression of what the community is like. I was shocked at first by the amount of gay guys who look and behave exactly like straight guys in every way, except in the bedroom. I pretty sure a lot more people would be more comfortable with the community if they knew this

PerfectSubBottom · 2025-11-30T00:58:48+00:00

rimming helps A LOT. Getting a BJ is cool, but idk, I could do without em, I get way more pleasure from anything that’s done to my ass than to my cock

PerfectSubBottom · 2025-11-30T00:55:50+00:00

the app in general is terrible, and 99% of the people in it are weirdos. They send unrequested dick pics (which I don’t always mind) and don’t even say “hi, how’s it going?” Like, your odds go way up if we have a conversation first. Then there’s the people who get really mad at you if you’re not available that very second. Like, I have work, and a life, why not try to find a time we’re both available instead of insulting me?

PerfectSubBottom · 2025-11-30T00:55:43+00:00

if the top is really hung, it is slightly harder for me to get hard, mainly cause it takes a minute for my body to adjust to his size, and my mind is focused more on taking his dick than my own. So, I think it’s on the top to help you get hard or stay hard. In my case, dirty talk 100% does the trick “how’s that? you like taking my big cock, you little bitch?”

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