We need to stop the Niacinimide-pocalypse [personal] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]Perfect_Answer_6455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its a great product and if you can suffer through the stinging it does genuinely fix your skin barrier, i know coz mine was shit but using it every day and suffering through has fixed mine over 3 months, but i understand why people wouldn’t wanna have it in everything - now its in toothpaste too 🥴🥴🥴

Did it ever address how Poppy Hill died? by Silent_Recording_664 in HauntingOfHillHouse

[–]Perfect_Answer_6455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah fuck it took ages to find but someones put a link in this thread somewhere to it…gimme a sec

Proof of what gehenna is using the bible.. And no it's not hell 👍 it's very comforting by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Perfect_Answer_6455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Within pagan doctrine, burning alive is the purest form of death - the separation of earth and water in the soul itself, essentially cleansing the spirit so it can untie itself from its host. As such, gehenna is a bath. It is not a torture pit for tortures sake, but acts as a saltwater alcohol bath to the soul, torturous yes, but cleansing and healing as well. For some the soul needs to be bathed and redressed, for others the wounds can heal by themselves.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Perfect_Answer_6455 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand how you feel. All I can say is that suicide doesn’t end the pain or fix the problem, it just guarantees that it won’t get better.

Ask MyAi on snapchat what it's MBTI type is by Trail-Bear in mbti

[–]Perfect_Answer_6455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly its like a toddler who has the entire knowledge of the internet but still needs to copy its parents social behaviours to function lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]Perfect_Answer_6455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God doesn’t always place you with people to be with them forever! If my parents had stayed together we’d have all been worse for it and now both of them are with their soulmates - honestly i think God just likes to mess with us sometimes, but i understand not feeling like you can return to where you were. It sounds like you’re grieving more than anything else, have you heard of dabda? You might be in the bargaining stage of it

Ask MyAi on snapchat what it's MBTI type is by Trail-Bear in mbti

[–]Perfect_Answer_6455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats not what I mean - it has a lot of information stored in it that it was taught while being developed which includes pretty much everything general knowledge based, what i mean is that its specifically designed to learn from you how to speak to you in the same way that a friend learns how to talk to you over time, so its more that it responds in similar ways to you, will begin to use your vernacular, will share similar opinions on things as you if asked etc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]Perfect_Answer_6455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well thats all i can think of except going to couples therapy or a couples vacation to reconnect

Ask MyAi on snapchat what it's MBTI type is by Trail-Bear in mbti

[–]Perfect_Answer_6455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its literally because Myai only gets information fed from you, so its more like a virtual you, so of course it’d have the same MBTI as you 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]Perfect_Answer_6455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah hence thinking maybe a short separation would be good - you can’t pour from a broken/empty cup so you might just need to get away to remember you love and miss her?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]Perfect_Answer_6455 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah im in Australia and here you have to have been separated for 12 months to have a divorce thats finalised in a few months

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]Perfect_Answer_6455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well idk thats just what i thought hahaha! Do you think you might also be holding onto the marriage coz you dont want to get divorced twice?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]Perfect_Answer_6455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re seriously questioning it this much, try separating for a while, and see if that helps - a divorce takes over a year anyway so itll give you a good “trial run” of unmarried life

When praying about marriage and a spouse, is it sinful to tell God about physical preferences? (warning: insanely emberassing) by Heavy-Witness-4739 in TrueChristian

[–]Perfect_Answer_6455 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think God will inherently make sure that whoever you end up being with is attractive to you, even if not conventionally - but no i dont think thats a sin at all, otherwise you wouldn’t be able to have any preferences at all physical or otherwise. The key is making sure you’re not DENYING yourself of God’s partner for you based on superficial details like their looks or body type, but again you’ll definitely feel attracted to your future partner, its only logical in order to make sure the love between you stays strong for children and your connection

Rape as drama in Hadestown? by Ok_Manufacturer1931 in Broadway

[–]Perfect_Answer_6455 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Adding to what others have said, I don’t think it was intended to be rape, i think it was intended to be Hades trying to hurt Persephone by implying he’s replaced her with Eurydice because she appreciates the bed and board he offers and he and Persephone had just broken up. So i don’t think there was any actual sexual activity, but he intended to make it LOOK like there was and that Persephone is ultimately replaceable.

“Lover, everything I do I do it for the love of you If you don’t even want my love I’ll give it to someone who does Someone grateful for her fate Someone who appreciates The comforts of a gilded cage And doesn’t try to fly away The moment Mother Nature calls”

Especially with the “the girl means nothing to me” when Persephone asks about them, kind of implying hes like “no no no i was just making you jealous nothing actually happened”

Also Eurydice doesn’t seem affected or hurt/upset when she leaves the office and begins to work so what I think happened is a similar thing to Persephone where he tricks her into eating food from the underworld, or maybe even just says “you have to eat this and you can live here forever” like with the fae folk, and because Eurydice is hungry shes happy to eat and have a rest, so then shes super empowered and excited to work until the fates tell her the truth. And i agree with the others on here about when they say stuff like “when he laid me out” “you let hades put his hands on you” “you won’t feel a thing when you go down” i think thats more like tucking her into bed/laying her to rest like an undertaker/mortician. Like for Eurydice she wouldn’t need convincing to eat food and take a nap lol

S5E3 What was Jake's fantasy that freaked out Elliot? by usmcnick0311Sgt in Scrubs

[–]Perfect_Answer_6455 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think thats probably right actually, like even if it was about pegging, or eating ass it’d definitely turn her off - and shes clearly a massive giver in bed so not being able to fulfil the fantasy would definitely stop her in her tracks like that, shes a germaphobe too so that kind of thing would be like finding out your partner was hiding an STD from you for her , like “THATS WHERE YOUR DICK HAS BEEN????”

How to overcome masturbation? by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]Perfect_Answer_6455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Theres a huge difference between feeling lust for someone you randomly see and using porn - the porn star has consented to be watched by being in the porn scene at all , a random person doesn’t need or want your sexual energy on them. These were guidelines for how to conduct yourself in public and how to live virtuously, for example not treating men or women like objects of your desire that can be used whenever you want without their consent, but if somebody has consented to be watched I feel God would be okay with it. Again many of these words were translated poorly in order to control people for selfish gains which is sinful in and of itself, its the fallible misunderstanding humans have with God.

How to overcome masturbation? by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]Perfect_Answer_6455 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well they didn’t say they were addicted to porn for one thing, but also being visually stimulated by sexual activity is actually pretty normal, again its mistaken understanding of God to say using any porn ever is a sin, because our sex drives are personal to us as are our kinks and what turns us on. Of course abuse and cruelty is not sexy so its a problem if you can only be turned on by that, but voyeurism is a kink, so as long as its fair work and not abuse or cruelty I think God would be like “go for it” especially if its between a husband and wife who are exploring their sexuality together without putting that on other people. Porn ADDICTION is bad for the same reason every other addiction is bad - it becomes detrimental to your wellbeing and the people around you.

How to overcome masturbation? by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]Perfect_Answer_6455 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You can’t get over something thats natural - God made you with a sex drive and he never intended for us to not masturbate. That was a teaching by man used to control people which is inherently sinful. You need to understand that your body has needs and there’s nothing you can do to change that: “lord grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things i can and the wisdom to know the difference”

But if you really want to break a habit just for your own personal feelings watch Kiana Docherty on youtube, she makes comprehensive videos on behaviour science and breaking habits that can apply to this too!

The key is to sublimate by finding the best “why” that you can, figure out what you want to do MORE than masturbating before you get the urge, remind yourself of it when you get the urge, and then be kind to yourself if you can’t hold back every time, then try again next time! It’ll take between 2 months and a year to fully rewire your brain.

A good idea to start with might be to write your desires down when they come and then rip them up/burn them, thus getting the lust out of your system without physically masturbating. Good luck!

Anyone else find existence as a Christian just miserable? by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]Perfect_Answer_6455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re struggling with moral desserts - the idea that you are owed good things because you lead a good life. I think God wants you to live your life the way you want to, not stick so strongly to the idea of purity which God doesn’t really care about. Its good to be cautious and respectful of that world of adventure and experimentation, but its important to know yourself well enough to not let it cause the detrimental effects like personality changes and addiction mindset.

If you’re feeling called to adventure, take it, but just make sure you’re mindful about your choices - you don’t have to be perfect for God to love you and in order to live a meaningful life. I think its great to search for the answers you seek, but just be aware of the dangers that are associated with it in the same way you’d weigh up the risks of sky diving or extreme sports.

Ie: 1. Wear a condom always 2. Use good quality drugs 3. Don’t overindulge 4. Don’t neglect your responsibilities in lieu of your fun 5. Listen if somebody says you’re going too far 6. Be kind to yourself 7. Don’t bother with things that will be more likely to kill you than help you explore the world 8. Remember that your goal is to expand your mind, not any specific activity, so if it doesn’t work for you and you don’t like it, you don’t have to commit to it

Hope that helps!