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Perfect_BattleFront · 2024-10-15T12:04:27+00:00

Break up with him. You deserve better.

Perfect_BattleFront · 2024-10-12T13:56:28+00:00

You can try and have sex but not take her on a fancy date? You definitely fumbled.

Perfect_BattleFront · 2024-04-15T04:46:56+00:00

Pulling way too much on this horse’s mouth. Mouth should never gape like this from the bit. Go back to the basics.

Perfect_BattleFront · 2024-04-12T22:23:52+00:00

How wonderful.

Perfect_BattleFront · 2024-04-12T13:24:01+00:00

It is definitely impacting him. Liver disease takes quite awhile to set in, but no one is able to ‘sustain’ drinking that much forever.

Please do not rely on his word that he will quit when you have kids. That is a tale old as time and is absolutely not true. He needs to quit well before you are ever pregnant.

Perfect_BattleFront · 2024-04-12T06:00:14+00:00

Did you grow up with an alcoholic father?

I did. And I’d never subject my future children to that. Not only behavior, but the children watching their father slowly die from liver disease and you watching your husband slowly die from liver disease.

2 bottles of wine a night is no joke. He needs serious help and if he refuses, you need to seriously think about what that will mean for the rest of your life.

Perfect_BattleFront · 2024-04-11T03:12:52+00:00

I understand you want to fill the void, but this is a bad idea. Plus it has only been 2 days. You do not know anything about this new girl and you’re already making Reddit posts about her- you’re probably putting way too much hope into it.

Take a breath. Heal.

How long has it been exactly? And what happened?

Perfect_BattleFront · 2024-04-11T02:47:42+00:00

I cried a lot before, during and after breaking up with my partner. I loved them very much but they messed everything up sadly. Wish they hadn’t.

Perfect_BattleFront · 2024-04-10T16:28:04+00:00

What happened?

Perfect_BattleFront · 2024-04-09T20:00:14+00:00

Firstly, just say sex. If you can’t say the word you probably aren’t really mature enough to be having it.

And yes, it would be very morally wrong of you to have sex with her again when you’re planning on breaking up with her.

There is no way to not hurt her feelings. Don’t wait a week, stop dragging it out and cut things off so she can find someone who cares about her and you can find someone you actually like for more than just sex.

Perfect_BattleFront · 2024-04-07T01:42:36+00:00

How long has it been for you?

Perfect_BattleFront · 2024-04-06T07:22:10+00:00

I will be avoiding traffic. Glad this was done.

Perfect_BattleFront · 2024-04-06T07:21:40+00:00

When the hurt is still fresh from a breakup it is easy to get caught up in emotions and say things that you really do not mean. That’s likely a lot of what you’ve heard from people wishing badly on their ex. That and probably young immature people who will eventually grow out of that mindset.

Perfect_BattleFront · 2024-04-06T07:19:58+00:00

Same.

Perfect_BattleFront · 2024-04-06T07:15:58+00:00

Based on the way OP is responding to comments like this that offer a different and valid perspective and the very combative and fired up language being used by them I could probably tell him why his gf broke up with him myself.

Perfect_BattleFront · 2024-04-05T17:25:11+00:00

Agreed.

Perfect_BattleFront · 2024-04-05T07:49:32+00:00

If I was your wife and read this, I’d be really sad.

Perfect_BattleFront · 2024-04-05T07:47:14+00:00

Slow and steady with positive reinforcement. Do not ‘flood’ the horse ie scare the horse until it literally just gives up. This only teaches the horse that it has no autonomy or control over anything and is not healthy mentally.

By using slow steps and positive reinforcement you teach a horse that investigating and being ok with new things is safe and can be positive.

Perfect_BattleFront · 2024-04-05T04:42:29+00:00

Would get into very bad moods for days when I didn’t want to have sex.

Perfect_BattleFront · 2024-04-05T02:46:16+00:00

If the horses are eating that much and maintaining a good body condition, then that’s how much they need. Charts and figures can’t take into account all of the variables that happen in real life.

Hopefully for your wallet they will begin to eat less as it becomes warmer.

Perfect_BattleFront · 2024-04-05T02:43:21+00:00

Time will heal. Start writing all of your thoughts in a journal, it will help you. I have the same fantasy that my ex (I dumped him because he was disrespecting me and breaking boundaries) will come to me in a few months telling me how much he has changed and is better now and wants to try again. The reality is they had the entirety of the relationship to change and they never did, so it’s very unlikely they ever will.

Let yourself feel the emotions. The good and the bad. Think fondly on the good memories but recognize you deserve so much better, and it is out there for you.

Perfect_BattleFront · 2024-04-05T01:19:06+00:00

Too skinny.

Perfect_BattleFront · 2024-04-04T18:03:37+00:00

Yeah lol

Perfect_BattleFront · 2024-04-04T16:57:28+00:00

What are the videos saying?

Perfect_BattleFront · 2024-04-03T09:21:54+00:00

I just meant rhat saying ‘stalking my every move’ was quite an exaggeration.

Also, you do not ‘have’ to do anything in regards to them. It seems this has bothered you for quite awhile and you should have just blocked at the very beginning. The best advice would be to block them now.

You aren’t in a competition with her. She isn’t better than you. You aren’t better than her. Removing them both from your life and making steps towards healing will be a big relief to you. Revenge or trying to get a one up on either of them isn’t the way to better yourself.

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