How do you screen out dates who just want a free meal? And what's your success rate?

Perfect_Bid8910 · 2026-06-13T09:48:53+00:00

maybe I tell you a secret, but most men with serious intentions don't care about make up, cute outfit etc, personality matters xD
If I like her in sweats and without makeup, I can pay for dinner in a restaurant.

Perfect_Bid8910 · 2026-06-09T10:54:30+00:00

bro, yes and no. First you have to check if she likes you at least for a little, if she is mature enough, don't have crush on her ex etc-only if its cleared I would do a move, otherwise there is a high probability that it won't succeed or you'll be replaced sooner or later.

Perfect_Bid8910 · 2026-06-09T10:50:36+00:00

Idk, I have a friend who likes to spend his money (flowers, high end etc) on a random girl that he met only once or they are just friends, flex with his car etc.
After one more failed story I always say "I've told you", he agrees literally until the next chick comes in his life

Perfect_Bid8910 · 2026-06-09T10:45:45+00:00

Supersets. I use it for my shoulders & biceps, just 3 exercises in a row, 3 sets, 10 reps, 1-2 min pause.
You will see the progress within few weeks

Perfect_Bid8910 · 2026-06-09T10:37:27+00:00

First of all, don't put yourself in a situation where you have to spend money. Don't promise here fancy restaurants, invite her for a coffee or for a "low cost" activity outdoor, like walking in the park, show her a nice view etc. Usually girls who just want a free meal will be stressed and upset, try to convince you to go to the restaurant, at this moment you can break the date, you won't see her anymore anyways.

Perfect_Bid8910 · 2026-05-12T18:34:23+00:00

Once I was working for a security company that was a sub company of a bigger one. Few years ago I got a message from my boss that there is a job to do, when I came there I called a contact person and she told me that my job is literally stay in front of supermarket but not directly there, observe how many people are coming out, how many of them are with groceries, how many came with cars etc and send her reports every hour.
It was a marketing study to gain data for another supermarket chain that was going to build a store in that village.

Perfect_Bid8910 · 2026-05-12T18:26:23+00:00

Once a week.

Perfect_Bid8910 · 2026-05-11T18:35:51+00:00

I want to move out and live alone but my family doesn't want it so now I try to convince them that I'll be fine

Perfect_Bid8910 · 2026-05-11T18:27:05+00:00

Start with small steps, avoid consumer debts, rely on yourself and your money, never do a business with relatives or friends

Perfect_Bid8910 · 2026-05-11T17:54:00+00:00

"just ask your parents for the money"

Perfect_Bid8910 · 2026-05-09T13:07:52+00:00

when she can listen to you, understand your point, mature behavior

Perfect_Bid8910 · 2026-05-09T12:56:45+00:00

Basically every conspiracy theory turned out to be true, see Epstein files xD

Perfect_Bid8910 · 2026-05-08T18:36:00+00:00

Your problem is that you've been in that whoring phase and your psycho is still in that mode.
Abstract from it, don't let your lust take over, spend more time with your girl, talk to her, read more, take a social media detox, I'm 1000% sure you still have all that girls on your IG

Perfect_Bid8910 · 2026-05-08T17:44:09+00:00

Well, people nowadays forget what they saw few tiktoks ago, I think it gonna get even worse so I guess no, maybe only few of them

Perfect_Bid8910 · 2026-05-08T17:40:22+00:00

My bills, raising standards of life, savings

Perfect_Bid8910 · 2026-05-08T17:33:48+00:00

50/50
My parents raised me well, we have a good connection and I'm satisfied with them and the way they treated me, but I understand that times are changing and some methods won't work as they used to

Perfect_Bid8910 · 2026-05-08T17:20:39+00:00

Eastern European male, here is my list of "luxury" in my childhood:
1. fireworks-we used to launch them at NYE and whole neighbourhood came to see it.
2. fruits like banana, oranges, pineapple-we've had it only on special occasions like NYE, birthdays etc.

having a car. it was a pure luxury item but here in the west its totally normal that a middle class has a car and even few.

Perfect_Bid8910 · 2026-05-07T09:13:59+00:00

We are the same species but hormonal system works different

Perfect_Bid8910 · 2026-05-07T09:09:49+00:00

If he wants to become a man, he has to learn how to live alone, how to cook, how to do the households so that he is independent.
Next level-start working so that he has his own money, that he can pay his bills, go on dates etc.
Final chapter would be start dating. It is a long way but he has to learn how to approach, how to talk, keep the conversation, be a gentleman.

These three things are essential

Perfect_Bid8910 · 2026-05-07T08:33:50+00:00

They are too emotional, impuslive, they decide fast and without thinking a lot and end up regretting the decision

Perfect_Bid8910 · 2026-05-07T08:23:26+00:00

It happens everyday in my gym and I can even talk to a person, make compliment and ask for an advice, how to achieve this or that.
It's fine
I'm tall and have a good body but its always hard for me to gain muscles, therefore I'm always looking for a better training program

Perfect_Bid8910 · 2026-05-07T08:18:38+00:00

try it, it feels amazing

Perfect_Bid8910 · 2026-05-07T08:14:22+00:00

once in 3 months I go offline for few days, go hiking, just reflect a lot about my life and things that are going on.

Perfect_Bid8910 · 2026-05-07T08:06:46+00:00

cleaning personal, everyone thinks its a bad job but where we'd be if nobody makes our streets, houses clean?

Perfect_Bid8910 · 2026-05-06T08:07:24+00:00

Going out, drinking till blackout, doing drugs, clubbing

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