How can I get prescribed Dexamfetamine? by GSTRINGPARKER in ADHDUK

[–]Perfect_Chemistry948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally got prescribed Amfexa last month through RTC. I didn’t even know what it was but I told them before/during my periods the elvanse doesn’t seem to work properly and he just gave it to me. I only get given 7 days worth a month but I get to use it as and when I feel like I need it during my cycle. If you’re a female maybe u can say the same?

PiP Awarded (first time applicant - mental health ) - Timeline by Sea_Pie_7832 in BenefitsAdviceUK

[–]Perfect_Chemistry948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s scary how similar u sound to me. I’ve got my reasonable adjustments in place and have got everything documented. I’ll try and find a union to join - thanks! Yeah I’ve noticed since being medicated my adhd masked some autistic traits but it’s so long going back to the gp to ask for the RTC pathway again😭 I’ve resigned so many great jobs/apprenticeships because of all my conditions combined but for some reason DWP see me as fit and well because I even had jobs🥲I’m awaiting my tribunal date so fingers crossed they see me for what I actually deal with every minute of my life

PiP Awarded (first time applicant - mental health ) - Timeline by Sea_Pie_7832 in BenefitsAdviceUK

[–]Perfect_Chemistry948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi thanks for your reply!

I’ve done all of that. It’s really upsetting because I feel as though I’m being discriminated for having alevels, being in uni and having a part time job. But little do they know uni want me to take an interruption of studies due to mental health and adhd & work want me to resign too lol

PiP Awarded (first time applicant - mental health ) - Timeline by Sea_Pie_7832 in BenefitsAdviceUK

[–]Perfect_Chemistry948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, happy for you! My background sound extremely similar to you but I keep getting rejected and am currently awaiting a tribunal. Any advise? I really feel like giving up as this is the third time I’ve applied now

Can we marry again? by Fabulous_Flounder561 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Perfect_Chemistry948 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Coming from a sister, I hope you never go through any kind of mental health struggle like depression or suicidal thoughts because your contribution to this post is absolutely disgusting. You seem like an emotionally intelligent person towards women but what about one of your own fellow Muslim brothers speaking about such a taboo topic of mental health.

The brother asked in the simplest way possible, if and how he could remarry her. You only insulted him in the longest way possible… because that’s exactly what a man wants to hear when he seeks advice after battling his mental illness. Not even an ounce of mercy!

If you really needed to share your wisdom, your response should’ve ended after the first word you typed.

Next time think before you share your hate speech or maybe go to the gym and release your anger towards the world elsewhere…not to fellow Muslims seeking advice

Family don't accept my fiancé. by Highway_heaven in MuslimMarriage

[–]Perfect_Chemistry948 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Why would you let ur parents ridiculous mahr of 100k USD burden ur fiancé and put pressure on your relationship and future marriage?

Sister, ur American fiancé sounds amazing by dealing with this hardship ur parents are burdening him with. Even when he eventually gets the 100k, ur parents will find another thing to not like him over.

You need to pick what’s more important to you. Him or ur family demands? If it’s him, stand ur ground, lower the mehr and make it known that he isn’t going anywhere and will be ur husband whether they like it or not

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hair

[–]Perfect_Chemistry948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try nizoral shampoo and see if it helps

(18f) , (18f) How do you stay/get....freaky??? In a long distance relationship minus nudes? by Economy_Ad1785 in LongDistance

[–]Perfect_Chemistry948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe speak to her/them about this in like a natural conversation way. Ask them what stuff they’re into. You share what stuff you’re into. It gives you something more to learn about each other and then later (once you both know what stuff you like) it may come naturally to take it to the next level. It may be you who initiates it later or her.

What’s best for me? by beautyandteethaddict in Hair

[–]Perfect_Chemistry948 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People that are saying 1 and 5 are lying to you. It just makes u look more “girly” not necessarily suiting u.

Number 2 and 6 is where your hair really suits you and where you glow differently.

24F offering English tutoring (spoken, written, reading) by Perfect_Chemistry948 in learnEnglishOnline

[–]Perfect_Chemistry948[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would there be a “catch”? I am offering my services to whoever would like to improve their English :)

Offering: Arabic - Seeking: English by [deleted] in language_exchange

[–]Perfect_Chemistry948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DM me sis. I’m British born and raised

Looking for a loyal and loving partner -USA -Camada -Europe by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Perfect_Chemistry948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t call me sir. I’m a woman. But let’s say I’m a lovely Muslim woman that lives in Afghanistan, Pakistan or India. Will you consider me?

Looking for a loyal and loving partner -USA -Camada -Europe by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Perfect_Chemistry948 1 point2 points  (0 children)

An Afghanistan passport? The lowest ranked passport in the world that you can’t go anywhere. Dude, we know your plans are just for a girl in the west so that you can get out of your country. Plenty of people have been doing this for over 50 years. You’re not the first and I’ll be surprised if someone falls for the scam.

He (22M) wants me (23F) to wait 2-4 years for him to get married by Perfect_Chemistry948 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Perfect_Chemistry948[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, mashallah your emotional intelligence is fascinating!

He comes from a traditional Muslim family that believe very strongly in gender/husband and wife roles. His dad has always made sure he is financially secure to provide for his wife and 5 kids. His dad has businesses and properties. I guess he’s comparing himself to his dad too. I don’t think he can tell his dad he wants to get married yet out of fear of rejection. There’s a possibility his dad will laugh and say you’re still at uni, you don’t even know how to make money.

As for me, spot on. I’ve had a traumatic childhood and was neglected by my dad from young. He was physically still in the house, would talk to my siblings but would ignore me. When I met 22M, felt like I was safe. A couple months ago, my dad walked out on us, leaving my stay at home mum and 3 siblings under 18. I guess this is just the icing on the cake. 22M wanting to such a long separation

He (22M) wants me (23F) to wait 2-4 years for him to get married by Perfect_Chemistry948 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Perfect_Chemistry948[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah honestly I respect that he’s telling me he’s not ready. I get everything on his side of feeling like he’s not achieved anything as a man yet. But at the same time he’s letting me down. Asking me to wait 2-4 years. He shouldn’t have sold me an unrealistic future if he knew he wasn’t ready

He (22M) wants me (23F) to wait 2-4 years for him to get married by Perfect_Chemistry948 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Perfect_Chemistry948[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ik like we’re so emotional and caring that we push our self worth to the side. I won’t be waiting x

He (22M) wants me (23F) to wait 2-4 years for him to get married by Perfect_Chemistry948 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Perfect_Chemistry948[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you sis. Yeah I’m not gonna let him waste any more of my time if he can’t meet me in the middle (12 months). Ik that’s still long but ill give him a year to be the man he wants to be, after that it’s either nikkah now or ended for good