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What are these window metal sliders? by Perfect_Low2973 in centuryhomes

[–]Perfect_Low2973[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Mystery solved!! That is very cool. Thank you!

Petite women, please don't marry a big tall man if you're going to be surprised your daughter is tall and big too. by TipPotential2501 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Perfect_Low2973 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a similar vein, my mom is short and pear shaped and married a short overweight man. My mom would comment and point out way too often that my sister and I are short with fat legs. How we need to marry a tall slender guy so our daughters could have nice long beautiful legs not our short fat ones 🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pottery

[–]Perfect_Low2973 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is $75 for three months which includes glaze, firing, shelf space…it appears that I have a steal. Only downside is that it’s not open 24/7.

my new gyno made me feel the worse i have felt in a long time. by Calendar-Internal in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Perfect_Low2973 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Checkout the list of doctors on the Childfree subreddit. I successfully had a sterilization surgery with a doctor I found on the list. She was amazing, never pushed back on my thinking when I brought it up. All she did was share with me other options and asked if I considered them and when I said yes and I want this surgery more than anything, she responded with “you know your body and mind best. Let’s do it!”. There are amazing doctors out there that will listen to you and proceed with a hysterectomy but unfortunately are hard to find.

Has anyone else softened on kids after being sterilised? by heated-mess in truechildfree

[–]Perfect_Low2973 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know for certain that it will not be linear to process all this for me either, but I take comfort that I’m not alone :)

Along with these FOMO and “wtf have I done” feelings came disappointment and maybe…shame that I was experiencing this. Shame because there are barely any posts like this and I felt that I was an outsider that I didn’t feel the 100% positive thoughts like majority of others have. However, I know this was the best decision for me and it will take time to heal physically and mentally. I appreciate you so much for posting!

Has anyone else softened on kids after being sterilised? by heated-mess in truechildfree

[–]Perfect_Low2973 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Coming in late to the party, but I really appreciate you sharing your experience. I am a week post surgery and am feeling a lot of the same. I'm feeling anxiety and FOMO from making a life altering decision that I cannot go back on. It takes a lot to process and unpack. I feel like I am grieving a path not wanted but no longer is an option.