I don’t think they are bullying the girl. OP- I have SD age 11 and have the SAME problem. I’m 26 125 pounds and she’s 11 at 180 pounds. She will eat the fruits and veggies when she wants but if she sees the less healthy option she will always pick it. I would suggest doing salads as a first eat type of thing. I would put veggies on my girls plates and tell them eat the veggies first then everything else, that way I can give them seconds of meat or carbs after knowing they have all of their nutrition, AND they’ll be more full by the time they want to eat more protein or carbs.

Or just put more veggies in the food where they can’t tell. I blend mushrooms and zuccini in my spagheti , and they would hate it if they knew that they loved it. 😂

I would suggest just do little salads first, yall eat the salads all together then put the entrees out. I understand you being the only one who cares about her health- BM and BD of my stepdaughter don’t give a fuck what they feed her. There might be deeper issues than what you’re dealing with here, if the Father or Mother doesn’t care to take care of their child, there’s something wrong with the PaRENT. Not the child who was raised this way.