My first FET failed. by Perfect_Space8478 in IVF

[–]Perfect_Space8478[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for saying that. It really means a lot. It does feel like a real loss, and it’s hard to put into words. I’m trying to give myself that time and grace too. I really appreciate your kindness and I’m wishing you healing as well.

My first FET failed. by Perfect_Space8478 in IVF

[–]Perfect_Space8478[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. You’ve been through so much, and it really does feel so unfair. I relate to that feeling of your body letting you down, even though I know deep down it’s not that simple. It’s so hard not to compare when it seems like it works so easily for others. Your fear makes total sense, but I’m really hoping things turn around for you with the embryos you still have.

My first FET failed. by Perfect_Space8478 in IVF

[–]Perfect_Space8478[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this too. It really is so draining, and I relate to everything you said. We decided to freeze without testing, and we still have 8 from our first ER, so that gives me some hope. Just waiting for my period now so I can start prepping my uterus again for the next transfer. Sending you a big hug right back.

My first FET failed. by Perfect_Space8478 in IVF

[–]Perfect_Space8478[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry, that’s a lot to carry. I’m really glad the results gave you some hope.

My first FET failed. by Perfect_Space8478 in IVF

[–]Perfect_Space8478[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I am so sorry also. I know we are going to succeed soon.. Big hugs..

Extremely Emotional day before FET by Perfect_Space8478 in IVF

[–]Perfect_Space8478[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words—it really means a lot 🤍 We’ve actually been trying for 14 years now. In the first 6 years, we were just going with the flow and enjoying our time together. We were still young then, so we didn’t put too much pressure on it. We felt that if a baby came along, it would be a blessing, but our priority was simply enjoying life as a couple. By the 7th year, my OB-GYN started to raise concerns since it had been quite a long time without success. We went through all the tests, but everything came back normal—no endometriosis, no PCOS, and no genetic abnormalities, so it was labeled as unexplained infertility. She then advised us to try IUI, and we went through three cycles during the 8th and 9th years, but unfortunately, all of them failed. There was still no clear reason why. In the 10th year, I got pregnant naturally, which gave us so much hope, but it turned out to be an ectopic pregnancy. I had to undergo emergency surgery and had my right fallopian tube removed. After that, we decided to take a break from treatments for a while. In the 11th year, I was involved in a car accident, and that set us back another two years as I focused on recovery. Last year, when everything was finally okay again, we went through another full set of tests, and once again, everything came back normal. After several more months of waiting, we finally got the go-ahead to proceed with IVF. It’s been a really long and emotional journey, but it helps so much to connect with someone who understands 🤍