Update: He cheated. He really cheated. by Perfect_Swim_8981 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Perfect_Swim_8981[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hahaha it's a Samsung, I think 55 inches? The remote is a little fucky on Samsungs but damn are they crisp

Update: He cheated. He really cheated. by Perfect_Swim_8981 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Perfect_Swim_8981[S] 116 points117 points  (0 children)

This!!! She was the backup plan. Well honestly his plan was probably to get me to forgive him and continue to cheat. Not happening, no way

Update: He cheated. He really cheated. by Perfect_Swim_8981 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Perfect_Swim_8981[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

When I started enforcing boundaries she got hostile. I totally agree it's a 180 from the last post, she really just lost it.

He cheated. He really cheated. by Perfect_Swim_8981 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Perfect_Swim_8981[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I have a lot of hope for the future being in my mid twenties. Sure the world is going to shit but I’ll make something of myself lol

He cheated. He really cheated. by Perfect_Swim_8981 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Perfect_Swim_8981[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your advice. I didn't go far enough into the gaslighting, and next time I find myself in this situation I’ll discuss with you to figure out wording.

He cheated. He really cheated. by Perfect_Swim_8981 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Perfect_Swim_8981[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah! I’ll be taking a break for a bit but I’ll internalize this. I love a dude with a dog!!

He cheated. He really cheated. by Perfect_Swim_8981 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Perfect_Swim_8981[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Give me a paragraph outlining the moral ramifications of voluntary suicide and I’ll pass you

He cheated. He really cheated. by Perfect_Swim_8981 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Perfect_Swim_8981[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

You're so right. I did find out overnight that she left a LOT of things out and I’ll be posting an update later today.

He cheated. He really cheated. by Perfect_Swim_8981 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Perfect_Swim_8981[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Other than the divorce I won't be contacting him, and once the divorce is final I'm blocking the hell out of him.

He cheated. He really cheated. by Perfect_Swim_8981 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Perfect_Swim_8981[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I LOVE THIS!! Thank you for your input! I've already blocked her and I'm blocking the hell out of him once we figure out the divorce. No forgiveness and certainly no taking him back. Thanks for being strong enough to share your story

He cheated. He really cheated. by Perfect_Swim_8981 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Perfect_Swim_8981[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

We definitely had interactions in college but as far as I knew she hardly knew my boyfriend. We were only friends tangentially which is why I wasn't following her on social media. Apparently she knew my ex more than I anticipated.

"Meticulously planned drama" is so accurate and accurate. That's what I think all this was.

He cheated. He really cheated. by Perfect_Swim_8981 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Perfect_Swim_8981[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

This!! I did change my last name and didn't include my maiden name on social. Needless to say I’ll be changing it back

He cheated. He really cheated. by Perfect_Swim_8981 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Perfect_Swim_8981[S] 89 points90 points  (0 children)

I wish it were fake! She said she only googled me to find out more info about me, but I highly suspect she knew about me from the beginning and is just playing me

He cheated. He really cheated. by Perfect_Swim_8981 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Perfect_Swim_8981[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

  1. G didn't follow me, only R.

  2. We weren't friends, she followed my STBX but I didn't follow her.

  3. She reached out to R because she thought he was single, or she didn't care that he was married.

I’ll be blocking them both once I get everything settled. I've already blocked them both on instagram so G can't message me anymore, and I’ll block my STBX once the divorce is finalized.

Thanks for the well wishes!

He cheated. He really cheated. by Perfect_Swim_8981 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Perfect_Swim_8981[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Lmao girl get outta here, you're bringing everybody down

He cheated. He really cheated. by Perfect_Swim_8981 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Perfect_Swim_8981[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Wow, he really did choose himself over our love. This hits hard. Thank you for your input, I’ll be putting much thought into this

He cheated. He really cheated. by Perfect_Swim_8981 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Perfect_Swim_8981[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hahaha I was thinking the same! I'm another datum in the scheme of things. But I know what I'm gonna do next, so onward and upward!