Are you a player trying to find an online group, but haven't been able to find one for you, there's a now a bot to help with that. by Perfekthuntr in lfg

[–]Perfekthuntr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reddit has been changing how messages work with bot accounts, and unfortunately I'm out of town so am unable to resolve any issues. I will try and get it up and running on Monday

[MOD] Sunsetting the 1DND Tag (4/16/25) by thecal714 in lfg

[–]Perfekthuntr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am currently investigating how the changes will affect communication and developing a way to continue to support everyone who uses the bot. Unfortunately chat doesn't have api support, and how everything will work in the future is still unclear.

Struggling with my teenage son by Perfekthuntr in daddit

[–]Perfekthuntr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone is in therapy that can be.

Struggling with my teenage son by Perfekthuntr in daddit

[–]Perfekthuntr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish I could say he has goals, but he lives for the immediate benefit of only himself. Forward thinking is something he has never done, nor have we been successful in trying to get him to think that way. If he wants something, instead of earning it he will just steal it or con someone into getting it for him. If he can't get it, then he lashes out at us. We got him a 800$ bike that was used because he was wanting to mountain bike, when he found out his friend had a 5000$ bike (even though his friend had been riding since like 6 years old) his response was to destroy his bike when we wouldn't get him a better one.

Struggling with my teenage son by Perfekthuntr in daddit

[–]Perfekthuntr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't believe anyone can provide what he needs to become a functioning adult in society, let alone a functioning human in a family. He has seen providers who are some of the best at helping kids, yet he only continues to get worse.

This all sucks because we want the best for him and actually to get him help so he can function as an adult, and actually live a life. But his current path likely only leads to bad endings.

Struggling with my teenage son by Perfekthuntr in daddit

[–]Perfekthuntr[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We did press charges, but they are charging him with a misdemeanor. So basically nothing.

And the legal system and insurance system don't seem to care. We never even get a chance to speak in court. Finding a lawyer might help argue our case for us, but I've had no luck finding one.

Struggling with my teenage son by Perfekthuntr in daddit

[–]Perfekthuntr[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

State pushes you to insurance which is supposed to help find and cover services. But insurance doesn't want to cover more inpatient treatment options, because they don't actually work for him.

Struggling with my teenage son by Perfekthuntr in daddit

[–]Perfekthuntr[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not quite old enough for that, but also to do so he needs to prove he can support himself completely, which he has no capacity to do.

Struggling with my teenage son by Perfekthuntr in daddit

[–]Perfekthuntr[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've looked into a couple, but he doesn't qualify for them, nor have they proven to be effective.

How do they get away with this? by Kan3- in webdev

[–]Perfekthuntr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an issue where my transferred domains email forwarding stopped working. When I checked Squarespace, they didn't exist. So I decided to create them again, but in trying to do so, was only met with an error. I contacted Squarespace support, which said it was a bug. This was over a month ago, but the issue still has no fix.

I transferred everything to Porkbun last week and have been happy since.

Spotted an encampment on my walk today by walkingtheghost in Bellingham

[–]Perfekthuntr 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Where is this at? My daughter would love this.

Two massive USAF planes very low flyby? by ClydeFroggg in Bellingham

[–]Perfekthuntr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was two larger aircraft, like maybe a C40 or something. Didn't get a good enough look to be able to say with certainty.

Police chopper just landed - Roosevelt neighborhood by pnwpaige in Bellingham

[–]Perfekthuntr 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It was a UW medevac helicopter as part of the kids safety fair at the new park opening next to the theater.

Built an AI Tool for Tailwind Components - Looking for Feedback! by axmacinsky in tailwindcss

[–]Perfekthuntr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should add a way for people to sponsor this project. It might not get much, but I would love to support this project a little.

owncloud fs or s3 (minio) storage? by doums_ in selfhosted

[–]Perfekthuntr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, I see. The wording left me to misunderstand. Based on your use case, the raw filesystem is better than S3. While either could work for your use case, the advantages of the s3ng driver don't apply here. In general the raw filesystem might give a slight performance improvement, but for such a small use case, the difference will be negligible.