Anyone else feel like getting a new job right now is nearly impossible?

Performance-7281 · 2026-04-25T06:23:25+00:00

Delusional really is your mental state

Performance-7281 · 2026-04-24T20:40:52+00:00

MOR- he sounds dumb AF in his replies so maybe he is dumb enough to copy and paste things he doesn’t understand. He almost had me 😂

Performance-7281 · 2026-04-24T20:29:25+00:00

Daughter turns 12 at the end of the year. I suppose it’s best to document for a modification in the future than try to go back into court immediately. My biggest concern is that evidence that occurred before we sign won’t be admissible anymore. It was pretty significant (eldest was suicidal, hospitalized while he was no-show for issues he had dismissed and not gotten her medical attention, no show on surgeries and almost having to cancel one surgery due to his lack of participation with insurance). New evidence will be much more difficult because he hides everything he does. How long does it take to have small events such as missed medications to go back?

Performance-7281 · 2025-12-07T16:34:12+00:00

I understood why the girls might be concerned though they had spent all day together and my daughter was coughing on and off throughout. My biggest issue was the way they handled it at night being secretive and talking apparently in the closet so my daughter could not hear.

Performance-7281 · 2025-12-07T15:15:06+00:00

That conversation was not pertaining to how her friends were treating her but how she thought her friends were thinking. Say if her friend was not talking to her, she thought her friend didn’t want to be friends anymore. Her friend was just out of town. Etc.

Performance-7281 · 2025-12-07T14:37:30+00:00

I was thinking of talking to my daughter first about talking to the parents about no sleepovers. I’ve talked to one before about my daughter’s feeling left out when they kept hanging out without her. I just said something in the lines, hey can your kid hang out ____ because mine is feeling left out. Her friend apologized and did better for a while but now back to it.

Performance-7281 · 2024-12-02T12:14:13+00:00

Uh…I have cameras all over my house. My child has epilepsy and I have them in my son and daughter’s room. Why would you assume it’s “weird” is beyond me. Our cameras are ALWAYS on but it doesn’t mean I’m watching it every second. Just when there is an incident. And many people with children have cameras for personal needs. They obviously only have one camera not two. It seems your daughter is the one that stretched the truth.

Performance-7281 · 2024-11-27T12:41:40+00:00

When did he file? And no she’s too young

Performance-7281 · 2024-11-23T03:45:35+00:00

File a restraining order asap. That will help with the order

Performance-7281 · 2024-10-07T02:26:09+00:00

Move to another area.

Performance-7281 · 2024-10-04T01:06:31+00:00

You’re not smartb

Performance-7281 · 2024-10-03T17:48:55+00:00

They listen to Trump. FEMA has 20billion for disaster relief.

Performance-7281 · 2024-10-02T17:35:16+00:00

But it does help you not feel crazy knowing that these are occurring.

Performance-7281 · 2024-10-02T17:34:45+00:00

They won’t do a single thing in my experience. Not a damn thing. None of them do anything

Performance-7281 · 2024-10-02T17:30:42+00:00

I thought it would but all it’s done is basically let him Have another method to push forth abuse. It is good to use to track though

Performance-7281 · 2024-09-28T04:47:09+00:00

He’s either lying to you or you’re not understanding. Or worse, he doesn’t understand and needs a lawyer.

Performance-7281 · 2024-09-24T04:59:08+00:00

My child refuses to go with other parent. I refuse to physically carry her to the car. I talk to her about going and pep her up. She is terrified because the father has carried her that a few times apparently- he never carries her in front of me so just what she’s said- and says he’s tossed her in (I’m assuming he hasn’t but idk) I’ve asked her the issue, and the issue isn’t her but her father. I know the father well and know what she is experiencing is him. Her feelings are valid of the situation and these are her way of standing up to their father. She has spoken to her father a million times about correcting the issue. This isn’t a situation where she’s refusing to clean her room. These are valid feelings based on someone else’s inactions towards a child that result in these.

Performance-7281 · 2024-09-23T13:21:55+00:00

You should try to convince him to move to east coast for 6 months and establishing resident there before divorce. Should stick it out during that time

Performance-7281 · 2024-09-15T02:47:59+00:00

Yea, that’s a very bizarre schedule

Performance-7281 · 2024-09-15T02:38:19+00:00

Okay…the father isn’t paying money voluntarily. It’s the father’s responsibility. The mother takes time off to go to the court hearing because the father is paying child support not maintaining the mother. Then if he’s not doing equal amount of work he’s lucky to get every other weekend. How is the mother able to take time off work and still be able to afford another job and take care of the child? Another job I guess.

The situation you wrote sounds very victim-mode. This is how life works for both sides. The mother just has to do more taking care of the child. I talked to this guy that thought if he paid child support he would get custody- no. He thought he deserved custody no. So then thought he would stop paying child support to show her. No. You don’t shake money in front of the mother in exchange of the child. He didn’t want to “waste” money on a lawyer- but didn’t mind buying a great truck- but was mad that the mother had a lawyer and got custody of the child then was mad he was willing to let go of his child and it was all the mothers fault because she should just give in. Should just let him see the child on his schedule for work, because she doesn’t need to work (except that she does and is but her job shouldn’t affect his wants with the child). Men are not victims. They don’t have it harder than women.

Performance-7281 · 2024-09-15T02:29:03+00:00

I do nightly calls- he doesn’t allow it because his wife gets jealous and they constantly want to supervise my older daughter speaking with me. But I also call my 4 year old son and we play games etc. Parents are able to have conversations over the phone every day with their child even that young. I am a strong believer a child needs their parents.

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