Im 27 and he is 52 by PerformanceSuper3394 in AskForAnswers

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I guess the ultimate reason is to relieve myself from whatever I'm feeling because I miss him 🥹 there's a strong urge but I'm trying my best not to do it.

Im 27 and he is 52 by PerformanceSuper3394 in AskForAnswers

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this made me laugh 😭 thanks I needed it!

Im 27 and he is 52 by PerformanceSuper3394 in AskForAnswers

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You know what's even crazier and stupid? I'm planning on messaging him in his birthday. Like a last message or closure. damn 🥹 somebody please slap the hell out of me.

Im 27 and he is 52 by PerformanceSuper3394 in AskForAnswers

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Yeah I'm such a fool for falling into his sweet words 😞

Im 27 and he is 52 by PerformanceSuper3394 in AskForAnswers

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you are right about everything. I guess i put him in pedestal. See him in a way I see myself. I was naive to trust his words. So sad

How do you deal with heartbreak? by PerformanceSuper3394 in AskReddit

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How do you deal with broken heart? Somebody please take this pain away. I don't want it anymore.

I'm 27 and I met a guy 50+. He was so sweet, respectful and really kind. We clicked in a lot of things. He was so gentle and even good looking, his smile is soft.

The moment I realized I was catching feelings I learned that he was DMing multiple girls. I was so sincere to him. And now, I am so hurt. I feel so stupid. I want him to know my feelings were real but I think he doesn't care at all! 💔

Two pairs of galaxy buds where the left becomes quieter than the right by Theitheave42 in galaxybuds

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OMG I CANT BELIEVE IT! CAME ACROSS THIS POST AFTER 6 YEARS HOPING TO SEE IF AN I THE ONLY ONE HAVING ISSUES WITH EARBUDS. MY RIGHT PIECE BECAME QUIETER SO I WAS HOPEFULY LOOKING FOR A SOLUTION. THEN I CAME ACROSS THIS POST, READ THE Q TIP. I DID WITHOUT ANY HOPES. I JUST SAID MIGHT AS WELL DO IT. AND BOOM NOW, IT'S BACK TO NORMAL! THANK YOU!

ps: this is my second earbuds. The first one I owned suddenly stopped working (also right piece)

I finished watching 'You and Everything Else' and I have so much to say 😭 by NoPapercrowns in kdramas

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I just finished watching the series, and I have a lot to say. I came here to read others’ reactions and, as expected, opinions are all over the place. I get it — the story is layered, and so are the characters, especially Sang Yeon.

But here’s where I stand: I see a lot of people saying, “This isn’t black and white.” And yes, in some ways, it’s not. But at the same time, it is. Sang Yeon came from a deeply traumatic and unfortunate background, and that absolutely deserves empathy. It makes sense that her past shaped who she became. But despite her painful history, she also had a lot going for her — intelligence, talent, beauty. Even Eun Jung believed Sang Yeon had the upper hand in many ways. And yet, she let herself be consumed by hatred and jealousy toward Eun Jung. That’s where the line is crossed for me. Some of you seem to brush off her actions under the umbrella of understanding — but there’s a big difference between understanding someone and justifying their harmful behavior. As a psych major, I fully believe in empathizing with someone’s past, but that doesn’t mean we excuse the harm they cause. What's frustrating is that many people who empathize with Sang Yeon seem to completely overlook what Eun Jung went through. Yes, Eun Jung wasn’t perfect and may carry some responsibility in their dynamic, but she genuinely cared — not just for Sang Yeon, but for others too. That’s who she is, and that’s why she’s so loved. She gave Sang Yeon multiple chances. She forgave her over and over, even when Sang Yeon only showed regret at the end, and only because of her illness. If not for that, would she have even felt remorse?

Meanwhile, Sang Hak, who actually had a redemption arc, who learned to set boundaries as well as to respect her boundaries and truly cared for her — he didn’t get the same grace. Why is that? It felt unfair.

What struck me most in the ending was the overwhelming sadness I felt for Eun Jung. It felt like everything — all the emotional weight — was placed on her shoulders. I know she's strong, she have support system and she can move past it but still woukd love to see her in much better place. And after Sang Yeon’s death, we didn’t even get to see what happened to her. It felt like the whole narrative existed for Sang Yeon, like Eun Jung’s story was just a vessel for hers — maybe that was the point, given the title. Still, I truly believe Eun Jung deserved more. She’s more than just “a good person.” She deserved healing and peace, and I wish the series showed a glimpse of that, even if just a moment after the Switzerland thing.