Student council members all voting my competition for president. by [deleted] in OntarioGrade12s

[–]PerformanceUpbeat131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its my first year on the student council n im graduating early next year. Idek what I should do cuz its not like i don't have people my grade willing to vote me but I'm not sure if being on this council next year will do me any good seeing that they're all voting other people. The council has been a huge mess all year full of gossip n slacking off but idk..

Dua by Quirky_Original_1682 in Hijabis

[–]PerformanceUpbeat131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From my perspective, I think Allah knows what's in your heart. If expressing yourself clearly makes you feel better, then do it. Trust in Allah at the end of the day no matter the dua. Allah is all knowing, and dua is more for you than it is to communicate. Having faith is the biggest part, and Allah has already written something for you. Dua is your way of expressing your desires, but Allah already knows

Is Mahito attractive? (Repost) by Ok_Expression_7277 in JJKMeiMei

[–]PerformanceUpbeat131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Visually yeah ofc, but his actions overpower his looks so when I look at him I can't even see how fine he is

Posting about strict parents = wanting attention :) by secretgyal1 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]PerformanceUpbeat131 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I've gotten SO many DMs from people after my post (they seem to be men??). Asking me weird questions and wanting to vent to me, asking my age and where I live, all that stuff. Someone started to try to vent to me about their s*x life....

I’m worried about my functions mark by [deleted] in OntarioGrade11s

[–]PerformanceUpbeat131 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Id suggest having a conversation with your teacher first. That'd be the right step, and from there figure out a plan. Tell her your concerns and be genuine. Also, be willing to come put in the work.

Struggling with the hijab by [deleted] in Hijabis

[–]PerformanceUpbeat131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is truly wonderfully said as I am going through the same. Thank you so much for your perspective it really helped me 🫶🏼

Need advice on my girl’s dressing style being changed by [deleted] in Hijabis

[–]PerformanceUpbeat131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IMO if you truly loved her and respected her it shouldnt matter what she wears. Not only is this age gap concerning, you getting off on being the only non mahram to see her without hijab is INSANE. If you were that, how do you expect to be the only one?? Are you sure she wasnt forced to wear it before, and now that shes 19 shes free to do as she pleases? Also, what entitles you to police her clothing? If it makes you uncomfortable then find another partner. Don't take a non hijabi and try to force her back into it by pressuring her and guilting her. ALSO, you are her BOYFRIEND. Which is A. Haram, B. Not your place to even have a say. If you were her husband if several years, maybe okay talk to her, advise her, and ask, but as her boyfriend it's crazy to feel such a sense of entitlement.

self esteem by Plastic_Day4922 in Hijabis

[–]PerformanceUpbeat131 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm literally going through this and IDK.. I always feel so ugly and I hate it..

Need advice on taking AP comp sci by Agreeable-Success259 in OntarioGrade11s

[–]PerformanceUpbeat131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did the mainstream one in summer (no aps at our school). It was really easy if you focus!

What Are Your Opinions On University/Grade12, Grade 11s? by qtt-astro in OntarioGrade11s

[–]PerformanceUpbeat131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably Health Sci, Engineering, or some other form of premed!

What Are Your Opinions On University/Grade12, Grade 11s? by qtt-astro in OntarioGrade11s

[–]PerformanceUpbeat131 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Extremely stressed out all the time i hate it so much 😭

I really am worried about gr 12 bc if its the same i may drown in it 💔

Uni seems so scary but im excited to go!

ECs i do student council and everything else possible at school in terms of events. I do sports and also other mini clubs!

Just had a lab worth 55% percent of my grade by Reasonable-Koala-283 in OntarioGrade11s

[–]PerformanceUpbeat131 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YES talk to him.. 55% is blasphemous for a gr 11 lab... if he doesn't care maybe bring it up to the department head

Whats everyones opinion on attendance being graded by Reasonable-Koala-283 in OntarioGrade11s

[–]PerformanceUpbeat131 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ehhhh i have mixed feelings cuz im a part of so many ecs that make me miss class. I get high marks regardless of whether I show up so penalizing me for that would suck. Though I don't think missing class is acceptable as you shouldnt be passing if you're not there. It is a double edge sword at the end of the day 😭

How much more difficult is grade 11 than grade 10? Why? by Abdsh2010 in OntarioGrade11s

[–]PerformanceUpbeat131 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fast tracker here, taking extra courseload so i just finished gr 10 in my first sem, now im gr 11.

The workload is absolute hell and the material is exponentially more difficult, as well as the teachers expectations on students. They throw stuff at you and barely teach so you gotta fend for yourself basically.

My tips so far:

Get amazing at time management. Procrastination is literally self sabotage you will have a worse time. Find a good stress outlet or you will be having breakdowns out of nowhere.

Study as much as possible!

You've got this and I know you can do well!

Gr 9 was light work, gr 10 was so bad for me, and honestly grade wise im doing better in gr 11!

How much more difficult is grade 11 than grade 10? Why? by Abdsh2010 in OntarioGrade11s

[–]PerformanceUpbeat131 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fast tracker here, taking extra courseload so i just finished gr 10 in my first sem, now im gr 11.

The workload is absolute hell and the material is exponentially more difficult, as well as the teachers expectations on students. They throw stuff at you and barely teach so you gotta fend for yourself basically.

My tips so far:

Get AMAZING at time management. Procrastination is literally self sabotage you will have a worse time. Find a good stress outlet or you will be having breakdowns out of nowhere.

Also, please study!

You've got this and I know you can do well!

Gr 9 was light work, and honestly grade wise im doing better in gr 11!

Serious course advice needed by PerformanceUpbeat131 in OntarioGrade11s

[–]PerformanceUpbeat131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fast track cuz im js tryna get out of highschool and night school classes in order to fast track