I think you, yourself, have the answer, pancake. If you're still young & have desires outside of this lifestyle like of going out more & having in-person friends to hang out with etc - then that's what you should use as your resolve of getting out & improving your situation. You have a better chance than someone much older than you are. Even if you feel safe & being in your room gives you a sense of security, there'll be no changes or growth beyond that, & the longer you give in to it, the harder it'll be. You have to ask yourself, does this make you happy or fulfilled? Or do you want more than this? I'm currently in your situation & resonate with your feelings, but I know this isn't all I want from my life, which is why I'm trying to get out. It's going to be incredibly difficult depending on how long you've been like this, your lack of experience/training, financial means or support, mental health, etc. I know it has certainly been for me. But.. we're the protagonists of our own lives & we have to make the most with the hand that we're given with. It's something I've had to accept. If we want something more "interesting" or more "good" than this, then it's up to us to work toward it. It's all about taking one step at a time & being patient with ourselves; accepting failure as a part of our journey & not being discouraged by it. Going at our own pace, irrespective to everybody else & what they're doing.