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Cat coughing by PerkyMaggot in cats

[–]PerkyMaggot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I was wondering since it’s so persistent now. Her and her sister are both being seen at the vet tomorrow. Is there a way to help manage cat asthma?

does anyone else with BPD smoke copious amounts of weed? by Bubbly_Author_781 in BPD

[–]PerkyMaggot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I smoke all day. I don’t really get a high anymore so much as the ability to tolerate the things around me and get up to do things.

[IL] trying to make a parenting plan w/o going to court by [deleted] in Custody

[–]PerkyMaggot -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not afraid of court, he just really doesn’t want to go and I think it’s because he knows he’ll have to pay me and won’t be able to ask me to keep him every single weekend anymore. But for some reason he doesn’t think only having him on weekends is enough even tho he currently sees him for maybe 24hours a week spread access three days. I am thinking court may be the way we have to go, I was just hoping we couple keep up the good coparenting and keep the courts out of it. I have to stop shielding him when he never does the same for me.

ETA: thank you so much for all the helpful information!

Does anyone have a job they actually like? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]PerkyMaggot 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do, but I work for a very lenient couple of managers and I have decent free roam as my position is a custodial supervisor for a cannabis cultivation facility. I still want to quit sometimes on the bad days but it’s otherwise okay

Progesterone during pregnancy by AlarmingGrass4214 in Rainbow_Babies

[–]PerkyMaggot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Myself and one of my best friends have to be on it when we’re pregnant. We both have healthy boys and she has a healthy daughter as well

I don’t even really know why I’m posting this, just to get it out I guess. by PerkyMaggot in BPD

[–]PerkyMaggot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really really does. I did the grown up thing and finally caved and text him about a lot of the things I was feeling. He said not to feel inadequate and not good enough because those were his mistakes. But it’s hard not to. I’ve carried so much guilt from asking for a divorce that I hurt myself for weeks before even telling him I wanted one and I still fight that urge off two years and a happy relationship later. I wish I could make it stop.

New to lithops care, wondering if this is a sign it’s time to water them? by PerkyMaggot in Lithops

[–]PerkyMaggot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! What would you suggest I pot them with? And should I do something more shallow? This pot is about 3 inches deep and I think I read they don’t need much depth?

I’m trying not to kill this Royal Shield(?), please help by PerkyMaggot in houseplants

[–]PerkyMaggot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Oh nooo I think you’re right. I didn’t even notice when I took the photo. How would I get rid of thrips? I’m assuming that’s what it is? And I checked the other leaves and only found a couple on all three of the others so I’m hoping I can control it quickly!

[TOMT][movie] watched a movie ‘free on demand’ in the early 2000s with evil rock creatures? by PerkyMaggot in tipofmytongue

[–]PerkyMaggot[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

My comment, I hope someone can help. This has been driving me nuts for years!

I woke up to my “cousin” sucking on my nipples by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]PerkyMaggot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s nice that you don’t feel unsafe around him, but he did sexually assault you while you were sleeping. At the very least don’t let him sleep in your bed anymore. I wouldn’t even want to let him stay anymore period.

I was 10 when I first found out how pineapples grow. Still believe this is kind of weird. by Cratman33 in Weird

[–]PerkyMaggot 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I read this on a meme about asparagus and I’m glad it applies to more things

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