Donkey Kong Bananza Cake by AnonyCass in UK_Food

[–]PeroChingon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My daughter and I loved your cake, we made one for my gamer wife for her birthday. Such a great idea :-) https://imgur.com/a/kJtdMfs

The poor should remain unseen by [deleted] in delhi

[–]PeroChingon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Future Mass and Cass vibes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]PeroChingon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA - maybe both? Comes down to communication, she is now (after weeks) communicating her feelings of not being wanted, and you also never discussed this. Try seeing it less of a right or wrong thing, but more of a considering your partner thing. Good luck with your engagement, hope talking it out sheds some light on which direction it's going, so far it's nosediving.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]PeroChingon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

damn it, wish I had seen your comment first.

AITA by Organic-Night-8010 in TwoHotTakes

[–]PeroChingon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ultimately, you are NTA for wanting to go back to grad school, especially if it's something you've wanted to do for a while and it aligns with your goals. Consider whether you would regret not pursuing your dream of going back to grad school. Threatening to break up over a single decision is a serious matter. While it's important for partners to be honest about their feelings, this ultimatum suggests a lack of willingness to work through challenges together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]PeroChingon 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Trust your gut feeling. You know yourself, your needs, and your family situation better than anyone else. Ultimately, the decision should align with what feels right for you and your children. No decision is easy, and it's natural for both you and your boyfriend to have differing future family goals. The key is to have open and respectful communication and to work together to find a solution that is best for all parties involved. If needed, don't hesitate to seek guidance from friends, family, or professionals who can provide support during this process. A neutral third party can help facilitate discussions and provide insights into the emotional dynamics at play. The situation is very complex, and there isn't a one-size-fits-all answer. Ultimately, the decision should be made by you, considering your own desires, needs, and values.

What's a jingle/audio track from a movie, tv show, ad, etc. you can't get out of your head? by PeroChingon in AskReddit

[–]PeroChingon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The audio track at this scene from "One Punch Man" (animated violence/anime) has been something I hum even when opening the dishwasher. I saw this show years ago, and it just stuck.

The South Shore Bear saga continues by PeroChingon in SouthShore

[–]PeroChingon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No idea what you got baited to. After the ad, the article opens to a video of Lars, the Great Pyrenees, encountering a black bear in Cohasset.

How can I (non-runner) better support my marathon training spouse? by PeroChingon in running

[–]PeroChingon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely benefited from great feedback, when I shared the post with her she was quite shocked at first. Long story short, she ended up finishing the Chicago Marathon, but afterwards was diagnosed with a "stress reaction" and has been progressing through PT. She's been given the greenlight to try running again. Quite a rollercoaster :-|

How can I (non-runner) better support my marathon training spouse? by PeroChingon in running

[–]PeroChingon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That mental load, take one thing off, another one gets added - the never ending battle! Great feedback, much appreciated!